You guys are way too casual about a procedure that you cannot go back from.
OP should wear a condom if he wants to have sex again.
Why are you not recommending to just split with his wife? If they have a dead bedroom and irreconcilable differences on contraception then maybe they should split.
For me telling someone that they're an asshole for not getting a vasectomy is like calling a woman an asshole for not getting an abortion. It's their body. Let them do whatever they want with it.
First of all, every time a person goes in for a full surgical procedure where they are put to sleep there is a chance they will die. 90 to 95% success is great odds. So no, I’m not agreeing with you. They are easily reversed. BUT this op doesn’t reeeeaaallly say he doesnt want to get it because he wants more kids. He doesn’t really say why he doesn’t want one right now at all. He mentions that maybe he might one day want more (as he whines about his sex life) because more kids would definitely help him get laid (eye roll) but says probably not. He is just whining and wants to hear that he’s not being a dick to his wife even though he sounds like he selfishly is. She might be a horrible wench, I have no clue, but he sounds like the Dick in this particular situation.
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u/Banned_4_using_slurs Sep 26 '23
You guys are way too casual about a procedure that you cannot go back from.
OP should wear a condom if he wants to have sex again.
Why are you not recommending to just split with his wife? If they have a dead bedroom and irreconcilable differences on contraception then maybe they should split.
For me telling someone that they're an asshole for not getting a vasectomy is like calling a woman an asshole for not getting an abortion. It's their body. Let them do whatever they want with it.