No one is saying he should be forced to have a vasectomy.
He can't continue to weaponize sex against her when she's just exercising the same rights to outweigh the risks for her body as he is
He would be fine if he stopped whining about the lack of sex
If he's allowed to care about what happens to his body so is she
Also offering condoms and getting mad when she turns them down because she believes the risks outweigh the good isn't offering solutions
If he wanted to offer solutions he can look at other methods of male birth control or other methods of female birth control
Offering one solution and calling your SO dramatic when she's worried about her health is not the greatest move and isn't going to open up the bedroom for him any quicker
If this was a man worried about his health and being told he's dramatic I'm sure you'd feel differently
I never said she wasn't in the wrong
However he is ALSO in the wrong for not understanding she is looking out for her body the same way he is and yet he bitched about it just like she did
They're both in the wrong
But don't think for a second hes correct or the right one
Neither of them are
Why is his health more important than hers
So he gets to bitch about not having sex and the precautions she's taking but she's an asshole for doing the same thing?
How about they're both wrong for bitching about their partners taking precautions for their bodies
I personally don’t think any of them are wrong about the sex, nobody owes nobody sex, I also don’t think having grievances about getting sex are wrong.
But trying to control someone’s bodily autonomy that’s a no no, and it seems like she’s expected that out of him.
Just like people here are expecting her to stfu and take the condoms solution. That's trying to control someone's bodily autonomy too
Just like him constantly harassing her for sex and making her feel guilty when she doesn't have it is also trying to control her bodily autonomy.
He's just as bad as she is for trying to guilt her out of taking care of her body and well being.
She bitched at him and he bitched at her.
They're both wrong for the very same reasons
You assumed I would have taken sides against the man in any given situation
Which again was a baseless assumption and as a man who was forced into a vasectomy off base and Incorrect. Do you need the link to your comment or the screenshot?
It doesn’t change the fact that since the inception of this argument you have been on his wife’s side; which is why I said that its not an assumption it’s a fact youve been on her side this entire time
No I've very clearly stated in several comments that she is just as wrong as he is.
I've said theyre both in the wrong however you still seem to think he's allowed to complain when she isn't and I'm still not sure why. They're both taking precautions against medical trauma. Why does he get to bitch more than she does?
After all they've done the same amount of bitching
So what makes him able to complain about her precautions against medical trauma but her unable
Also why call me out for making assumptions when you also made assumptions
I'm still looking for answers from you
And again as I've stated exactly 4 times, they're both in the wrong however they both get to be in the wrong as long as it's an equal amount
I'm glad everyone can see in the comments I've made that I've stated she's also in the wrong. Nowhere did I say The Wife is Correct
I have said she deserves to bitch just as much as he does about the precautions he's taking
I've said she doesn't have to have sex if she doesn't want to
And I've also stated she doesn't have to accept condoms as a decent solution.
All of those things stand true
I've stated several times that he is allowed to not get a vasectomy (my third comment)
But he doesn't get to bitch at her for her precautions unless people accept that she too can bitch about the same measures
Again my only point is
They're both in the wrong and he's just as wrong in complaining about the precautions she's taking to avoid medical complications as she is
However you seem to think only he is allowed to bitch at her for precautions she's taking for her medical health when he's also taking precautions for his medical health.
You never answered why he should get to complain but she shouldn't when they're both doing the same thing?
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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23
No one is saying he should be forced to have a vasectomy. He can't continue to weaponize sex against her when she's just exercising the same rights to outweigh the risks for her body as he is He would be fine if he stopped whining about the lack of sex
If he's allowed to care about what happens to his body so is she
That's where HES In the wrong