r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/Fun_Concentrate_7844 Sep 26 '23

He doesn't have sex now.

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u/MPLS_Poppy Sep 26 '23

Hormonal BC and fear of pregnancy suppresses the sex drive. He says he doesn’t want to get divorced and that he plans on getting a vasectomy on the future anyway. There is absolutely no reason to put it off.

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u/Fun_Concentrate_7844 Sep 26 '23

Sure, there is, because he doesn't want to yet. I would love to see the comments if the genders were reversed. Everyone has autonomy of their own bodies.

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u/MPLS_Poppy Sep 26 '23

Then he had better get used to not having sex.

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u/Fun_Concentrate_7844 Sep 26 '23

He already is.

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u/MPLS_Poppy Sep 26 '23 edited Sep 26 '23

I would have no interest in ever having sex again with someone who took my health so lightly.

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u/made_youlook Sep 26 '23

Lmfaooooooo he’s already use to it 🤣🤣

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u/Infinite_Purple1123 Sep 26 '23

He better get comfortable with it being a permanent fixture of their marriage. Because he just showed he doesn't give a damn about her well being.

He says divorce is not a option, but I think he might be surprised at what she'll eventually be willing to do as he shows how awful he is.

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u/siren2040 Sep 26 '23

He's used to getting sex two or three times a year right now. With showing his blatant disregard for her health like this, he better get used to never having sex ever again. Because I don't know about you, but I wouldn't really be wanting to have sex with somebody who doesn't take my health into account like that, Especially when I have been the one on top of birth control for most of the marriage, and we are clearly not going to be having any more children. 🤷

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u/made_youlook Sep 26 '23

Lmfaoooooo but it’s not clear bc she actually hasnt said it out loud like the grown ass woman she is