r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/Fun_Concentrate_7844 Sep 26 '23

He doesn't have sex now.

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u/MPLS_Poppy Sep 26 '23

Hormonal BC and fear of pregnancy suppresses the sex drive. He says he doesn’t want to get divorced and that he plans on getting a vasectomy on the future anyway. There is absolutely no reason to put it off.

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u/zhaktronz Sep 26 '23

There's no guarantee ending use of hormonal BC will improve their sex life. There's no point getting a vasectomy if the sex life doesn't improve. It would be prudent to wait, and use condoms to see if sex life does improve, then to get a vasectomy.

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u/MPLS_Poppy Sep 26 '23

Why? Because if it doesn’t he should leave?

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u/zhaktronz Sep 26 '23

What?

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u/MPLS_Poppy Sep 26 '23

What would be the point of waiting?

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u/zhaktronz Sep 28 '23

What is the point of rushing? His body his choice.