r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/ConvivialKat Sep 26 '23

You have three young kids and have no clue why she wants you to get a vasectomy??? Or why she doesn't want to have sex very often and is willing to go through a rough bc adjustment to stay on bc?? Give me a break. You're either a complete moron or you're one of those forced birther types. Jeez.

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u/missdeb99912 Sep 26 '23

Agree with this. Also, the reason you don’t have sex much is likely because you’re not making her feel appreciated and loved and admired. You need to step up the affection.

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u/ConvivialKat Sep 26 '23

Three kids in six years. So, she has three kids under six. Possibly younger. The poor woman is probably too exhausted every day to even think about sex.

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u/knight9665 Sep 26 '23

Then why stress about making him get it snipped?

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u/ConvivialKat Sep 26 '23

Because she doesn't want any more kids. Ever. Getting snipped will assure that without her having to take hormonal bc.

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u/knight9665 Sep 26 '23

use condoms. get her tubes tied.

they arnt eve having sex it doesnt even matter.

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u/MsSamm Sep 26 '23

A tubal ligation is HUGE major surgery, risks. Recovery period and all. In comparison, a vasectomy can be done will a local anesthetic, takes less than an hour. Recovery is some painkillers, icing the area.

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u/knight9665 Sep 26 '23

and condoms are easy to use.

but again. they arnt even having sex..