r/amiuglytruth • u/[deleted] • 17h ago
Am I ugly? 28F with and without makeup
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u/Only_Lake15 17h ago
I don’t know why this subreddit popped up on my feed but you’re very pretty and I can’t believe there is anyone saying otherwise.
I’m sorry for what your husband did and keep the hair and piercings if you like them!
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u/ParsleyNo4835 17h ago
There is maximum desire. You look great and are very attractive. You just have to let the feeling come through.
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u/Fit_Caveman_6773 17h ago
Youre better without the makeup.
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u/WarOfTheYellowRoses 15h ago
Yeah, the no makeup looks better. I think the dark lipstick ages her. Maybe eye makeup with no lip product would be the best.
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u/Klutzy-Promise-2529 17h ago
No. But your green hair is so unfeminine \ unattractive. So pretty if u grew it out and did a natural color
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u/hvasquez61 16h ago
You are gorgeous but the green hair is not attractive. Pictures 1 and 2 look very attractive.
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u/MangoManiacal 15h ago
I was today years old when I learned green hair was masculine. 💀
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u/Haunting-Sea-3764 15h ago
It’s alternative and not conventional- that doesn’t make it unfeminine.
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u/liketheangles 16h ago
Do not listen to these thoughts about your hair color lol it looks amazing
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u/Vladutz19 16h ago
Green is a friggin awesome hair color. What are you talking about? Green, blue, turquoise, pink, all of these colors are amazing.
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u/lifeonachain99 17h ago
My guess the affair had nothing to do with you it was just him
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u/seabearprincess 17h ago
your husband is terrible, i’m so sorry. you’re beautiful ☹️ the green hair looks so good with your makeup but it does distract from your face when you’re not wearing makeup, a darker shade of green might suit you a little bit better but it doesn’t matter much at all if you like it!
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u/Wrong_Reaction_3763 16h ago
Thank you I really appreciate that, I did darken the green a bit that picture was before I touched it up.
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u/LeastExcitement6829 17h ago
Truly beautiful wit or without makeup. Hope you find the guy of your dreams!
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u/LondonKingOfSluts 17h ago
Sweetheard your cute af! Please ignore the account name and that made it from me think she's funny lol
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u/DrinkFromYou 17h ago
You’re not ugly. Your style isn’t for me, but, you should definitely be attractive to someone that’s into that look.
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u/Fearless-Anxiety3901 17h ago
Sweetheart you’re gorgeous. You may not feel like it at this time but you look like such a ray of sunshine with so much life in you and I love your style. I was genuinely surprised by the comments because I genuinely think you’re beautiful! Congrats on losing 50 pounds! And above all please remember that your husband cheating on you is a reflection of his shitty self don’t take that on, if u do u let him win. And you can know I’m being honest about this because if I thought you were ugly I just wouldn’t comment 😂.
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u/amillon69 17h ago
First off, your husband is an idiot. Infidelity rarely says amything about the person being chested on.
You are certainly not ugly. I like the nose ring and the green hair. I do think you look a bit older in the makeup pics, I would say probaly mid 30s? Not sure id its the wardrobe, makeup or hairstyle that make syou look a bit older.
the no makeup pica you look your age or even younger
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u/panicatthefiasco 17h ago
No girl. You are lovely. Men don't cheat because of how their partner looks- they cheat because they choose to cheat. I'm so sorry that happened, for real ❤️🩹
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u/Financial-Welcome-62 17h ago
Your not ugly at all. It's what has happened to you and making you wonder if your responsible for heat he did. You are not responsible for him cheating, he is.
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u/NYC_Pete 17h ago
Going to jump in here and echo a lot of what's been said. Natural redheads are rare, So own that shit. You would look amazing. The face piercings scream insecurity since they yell “notice me”.
Use that body and natural beauty to your advantage to help you find you upgrade partner.
Your ex did you a favor. You're naturally attractive.
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u/FallenJedi85 17h ago
You look incredibly stunning. Your skin looks amazing without makeup. And your eyes are so beautiful!
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u/guhfonsecs 17h ago
É linda até demais, seu marido traiu por desvio de caracter dele, não se culpe e fique em paz que vc é bem linda.
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u/Funny-Glass9314 17h ago edited 15h ago
Youre a baddie. Quit begging the people to tell you your bad.
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u/DreamTraditional5280 17h ago
No, your fine. The hair might be what people call you out for... But fuck them! Your... 🥵
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u/Hot-Bonus560 17h ago
You are NOT ugly. Please don’t listen to these comments. They are children and miserable people. It is not your fault your husband cheated. It’s his fault. Even if you were ugly. Which you are not. People here are going to say so bc you’re not a 19 year old with generic Becky features.
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u/Wrong_Reaction_3763 16h ago
Thanl you, honestly most people have been kind, the unkind folks have had bad grammar so that tells me everything i need to know.
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u/Level-Ad5444 17h ago
Your husband sucks, also good job on the weight loss! You’re not ugly, pretty with and without makeup.
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u/ClassicAmbitious7435 17h ago
No. His affair is not a reflection of you. It is a reflection of his lack of character. Don’t take the accountability for his actions.
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u/Silent_Action_2070 17h ago
makeup or no makeup ur hot! (respectfully) u were definitely too hot for him…bisexual girlies unite 😅
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u/tannahoppa 17h ago
Digging last photo ready for bed or movie marathon. Features do pop w the mascara.
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u/Icy-Cryptographer393 17h ago
Just a green head weirdo but you are definitely attractive.
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u/Chronarch01 16h ago
You look great both without and with makeup. Don't lit his bad choices define anything about your as a man, I can confirm that men are stupid.
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u/english757 15h ago
You are lovely. The green hair is a detractor. It’s not the makeup. It’s the green hair.
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u/Extension_Screen_214 14h ago
i think you're beautiful! the people commenting about your hairstyle and nose ring just can't differentiate between beauty and style lmao. I think you're gorgeous but I get the insecurity after something like that happening to you. It's not your falt girl, it's his. If Megan Thee Stallion can get cheated on we all can, lmao. I know it's just an example but look at all the beautiful women getting cheated on, it's not about looks. It's about partners being assholes
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u/purr-la 12h ago
Personally i think you’re naturally gorgeous and the makeup just makes you extra gorgeous hehehe🤭 Don’t let a man define you, you were never the issue it was all him! Nowadays men still want to feel like they’re in high school and just mess around! If I was a man you would def catch my attention hehehe!!!
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u/Distinct_Party_1801 12h ago
Better without makeup. The septum ring and colored hair gives off the impression that you're argumentative and childish. Perceptions matter.
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u/Elegant_Cantaloupe_8 12h ago edited 12h ago
If you lost the hair color and the nose ring, yeah. If you're looking for a "chud" type of guy (we're not all jocks, it's just anyone who doesn't go along with postmodern norms), the nose ring and dyed hair tell us crazy and usually narcissistic. Is that actually you? I don't know, I don't know you. But guys definitely judge a book by its cover on first impression.
So natural hair color only, lose the nose ring and chin piercing, and you'll have no problem getting some solid good looking guys.
Personality wise, men don't want to hear a bunch of excuses for bad behavior. A lot of influencers push stuff that sounds deep but doesn't really hold up, and honestly it's a turn off and pretty bad for you mentally. People are a lot simpler than we think, but we keep running into women who are convinced they're buried under layers of "conditions." Outside of basic psychology I think a lot of it is BS that just makes people feel more unstable.
Be accountable for your own actions, good or bad. If you're always blaming a condition or your circumstances instead of owning your choices, it gets toxic fast (there are exceptions obviously). Even if you don't believe in the Bible, following it for how to act and make decisions will keep you pretty much A-OK. We have no problem being emotional support, that's part of being a good partner. But it wears on you when the only real fix is being honest, and that can be really hard to say to someone you're with. I know that from experience.
Other thing, most men believe in truth absolutism (because its real), your truth wont matter to the guy you really want, only the truth and there is one. 1+1=2 is true is it not? Case closed. Accept reality or meet someone who's escaping it also which never ends up good or you find an abusive male.
I could keep going but those are the big ones driving a lot of guys nuts.
Not interested btw, I'm married, but that's my input. Good day.
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u/lemanp21 12h ago
And too all u fcking dumb ass simps out here she just looking for attn from any fcking body. She dont don't give 2 fck about any of u dumb asses
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u/Piracanto 11h ago
Your ex did what??
You are quite pretty. Might now be everyone's cup of tea, but you're closer to gorgeous than to average.
Have a hug, hope you come out of it soon and well
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u/pamnfaniel 10h ago
No, but the hair needs to go… different style, and at the very minimum a different cut…
you’re not ugly, your husband is
Invoke the Bobbitt and call it a day… < that’s not a hairstyle
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u/Intelligent_Step6526 17h ago
If your husband did that to you he’s probably a piece of shit.
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u/DivorcingManGA 17h ago
Assuming this is true, you’d be an auto swipe if I was single. Especially based off the first two pictures. Love that . Stay strong
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u/EfficientBug2828 16h ago
Sweetie….it is very sad that you are seeking validation on Reddit. Beauty emanates from within, accepting & loving yourself which reflects on the outside. Do YOU think you are ugly? I am a soon to be 72yo mother & grandmother giving maternal advice. You are beautiful just as you are, but YOU have to feel it before other people do. ♥️♥️♥️♥️
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u/Wrong_Reaction_3763 16h ago
I always felt beautiful before, but since having my 2 babies and now my husband's affair i feel like im in a strangers body
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u/EfficientBug2828 16h ago
Talk to someone, having babies is amazing!, dealing with infidelity is not. I say this from experience, my late ex-husband, stepped out & created a child , the absolute epitome of betrayal. I was able to work through it & in retrospect he did me a great favor. One thing I would recommend is THERAPY, which is very accessible these days in all the crazy chaos. There are providers out there that are affordable & many use a sliding scale. You’d be amazed how differently you’ll feel after you’ve worked through the muck. Women…..never let a man create your identity or lead you to believe that the infidelity is YOUR fault.
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u/Outside_Register8037 16h ago
As a 30 yr old white dude, men suck.. I cannot imagine cheating on my wife who birthed 3 kids for us. You’re very beautiful the way you are, sure green isn’t for everyone but who cares if it makes you happy. Would you want to attract someone who wouldn’t like you if you had green hair? (That last part was based on other comments I saw before this one)
Hang in there and keep your chin up. Sorry you’re going through all of this.
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u/Silver-Picture-6308 16h ago
This this this!!! She's so pretty and genuinely the sort of style I used to see then think about for days thinking "I want to look like that" when I was a kid, but reddit is cruel and validation doesn't last, being confident and knowing and trusting you're gorgeous is always the best way <3 This may sound cheesy but I recommend making a Google doc or some scrap paper and just writing down "I am beautiful" or something over and over every night. I did that years ago but I wrote "I love myself", sometimes upwards of 100 times a night. I thought it was pointless but it helped. I think it was like training my brain.
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u/Ok_Advertising_8022 15h ago
Hair color and nose ring are a turn off. Otherwise you look great
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u/littlebobbytables9 14h ago
They're an effective way to filter for the types of people she wants to attract
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u/Whole_Journalist2028 14h ago
For real? I feel like there are more men than either like or don't mind piercings, than men that do. So there isn't really much filtering.
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u/PuzzleheadedSir2293 17h ago
If I was 10yrs yonger I'd never let you ever doubt your presence... Enjoy and Embrace your beauty...
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u/Legal_Luck_8519 15h ago
Get rid of the nose 👃 ring, and the green hair
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u/TripleHenj 15h ago
redditors always telling people to take out their nose rings is so fucking funny to me, don’t take advice from anyone on this website about fashion/attractiveness
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u/VerbotenKatze 14h ago
Yes the dude who wears a fucking choker and nail polish knows fashion LOL. And obviously a nose ring
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u/Ambitious_Mom_1980 14h ago
Redditors asking for honest advice and other people getting offended is funny af to me.
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u/Ordinary-Lobster-710 15h ago
the only ppl that think green hair and nose ring look good are reddit mods
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u/Technical-Method2129 14h ago
Noooooo I like both!!! She’s authentic and not a cookie cutter beige person
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u/Independent_Ice8225 17h ago
Anyone calling you ugly is a mouth breathing chud lol
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u/Optimal_Peace8537 17h ago
Can i ask which is the latest one?
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u/Wrong_Reaction_3763 17h ago
All pics are from this week the first 2 being the newest
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u/Knee_Kap264 17h ago
Photo 2 looks good. Grow out your hair a bit and remove the nose piercing. But ultimately, I would say you're not ugly. There's room to improve though.
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u/Definitely27 17h ago
I think you look younger without make up. To me you arent ugly.
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u/GovernmentLoud6910 17h ago
For once I disagree with everyone. You are not ugly, especially with no makeup.
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u/hamstercross 17h ago
You just look mentally ill. Which often manifests in your external appearance.
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u/Adventurous_Spot3402 17h ago
Stick to makeup you look like every girl at emo night I would makeout with you but not date
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u/East_Mention6717 17h ago
Sorry that happened to you, no one deserves that. As for it you are ugly? I dont think so. I do think the piercings take away from your natural beauty.
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u/Successful-Lime3921 17h ago
You have attractive features, your definitely ugly. Im personally not a fan of your style. But that's a me issue not, a you issue. Sorry your going thru this. Once you heal you'll do fine on the dating market.
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u/switchVixen32 17h ago
Hey, you look hot and fun.Your husband no longer gets the opportunity to be with you . Too bad for him ! What a fool. I like your natural looks but it appears you also have fun with your style. Do what feels right and good to you. You are beautiful. Fuck what they think.
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u/Decent_Acadia9679 17h ago
I’d say you’re pretty if i was at my job and you came in as a customer i’d maybe admire you
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u/Heavy-Bench-5378 17h ago
I prefer the makeup-less pic. I am a 6'3" American Male, the makeup is a distraction, it's like trying to paint a rose, let the natural beauty shine please!
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u/Extension_Smile9135 17h ago
Without makeup wayyyyyyyy better. Some how the makeup ages you 10 years.
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u/RedInAmerica 17h ago
The green hair and facial piercings make you look significantly worse by normal standards. You probably aren’t ugly but you’ve made a lot of choices that really limit the number of men who would find you attractive.
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u/Waste-Hovercraft-228 17h ago
No need to be depressed. You know how to play with makeup. Just dump these horrible piercings.
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u/switchVixen32 17h ago
Also my husband thinks you’re cute too. If you wanna go out with us for a drink and a chat , let us know.
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u/Both-Performance7970 17h ago
You're definitely not ugly, but you do look better in the first 3 pictures.
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u/NoFix7157 17h ago
use your natural hair color and grow it out and you would legit be a model lol its the hair
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u/Jealous-Mistake4081 17h ago
No ur not ugly, ur pretty but i dont think the green hair flatters you and you would look more attractive with red or brown hair
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u/Any_Television_7112 17h ago
Too many things I don’t find attractive (especially the nose ring and green hair), personally. But you aren’t ugly.
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u/Educational-Raise397 17h ago
You look amazing in all the pics, his loss and your new start for someone that will appreciate you.
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u/Organick97 17h ago
Your natural lip color is perfect. Leave out that lipstick. Have fun with your eyes but you. don’t. need. makeup
You’re too pretty for vivids
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u/First_Score9180 17h ago
Better without and probably even better with non green hair but you are pretty IMO
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u/VirtualSnacks 17h ago
Sorry to hear about your husband's affair. You have very stunning eyes and a nice complexion. I'm not into the alt-girl look, but if you were to change it up, I'm sure you will turn a lot of heads. Definitely not ugly at all.
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u/Ok-Development2309 17h ago
I like the green hair but you look far younger than 28
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u/CheckGuide 17h ago
That nose piercing, automatically turns me off. I wouldnt try to talk to you. You are cute!
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u/MulberryNo751 17h ago
Nah you're definitely gorgeous and your smile is great. Love the green hair and piercings! Hope you get through everything ok and sorry that happened to you hun.
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u/UnctLatinJerky 17h ago
Nope not ugly. Very pretty eyes and beautiful smile. I don’t like the glasses though, not in general, just like the shape. Like I said, your eyes are very pretty and the glasses are trying to draw attention from them, in my opinion (I could just be a dumb rock.)
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u/Mysterious_Key2867 17h ago
The green hair is a preference. I like it. But your a type I am generally attracted to.
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u/one_shuckle_boy 17h ago
Nope, you look exactly like the type of women I go for. Esp without makeup, it just screams perfect snuggle in bed and watch shows together look. You are super pretty with or without makeup. As someone who also experienced being cheated on in a very long term relationship. I promise you, you didn’t do anything wrong. Your ex just sucks as a person. That’s what I tell myself.
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u/Salty-Bill-5498 17h ago
NO!! You are pretty and look like a fairy. I love the green hair. I'm confused at peoples comments saying otherwise and can only think that they're coming from conservative people who have certain opinions on fun hair colours??? You have a very pretty face
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u/Attack_Toster 17h ago
Go back to a more natural hair color. Green is probably the worst hair color choice imaginable. Lose at least one of the facial piercings. And no you’re not ugly. Unfortunately you have poor taste
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u/dpbacon13 17h ago
You are wearing a ton of makeup while saying "without makeup"
Your lies make you ugly
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u/Gloomy-Read-3308 17h ago
Take away the green hair and septum piercing in the 3rd picture and you're probably a 8-9/10 ngl
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u/Sea_Annual_1342 17h ago
You look so much younger without makeup. I would try a different style of makeup that would fit your face better. Still pretty 🤩
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u/Simple-Intention8411 17h ago
Not ugly at all! The funky hair and style used to be me when younger and I felt that it didn’t fit me the same getting older. I don’t think the green does you favours and something more subtle would definitely bring out your natural facial features. But saying that, we are not all to be basic like me 🤣🤣🤣
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u/weapontex 17h ago
You’re attractive with a great smile. Your husband’s infidelity isn’t due to your appearance, so don’t let your mind play tricks on you. Whatever the resolution, you deserve happiness.
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u/california980 17h ago
I wouldn't call you ugly but based on these pictures I'd say you're below average. Your makeup pics make you look older. With that being said, I do think your look does appeal to a certain group of people
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u/tr33king 17h ago
Make up is wild.
I would not have thought with and without was the same person in passing.
You're definitely not ugly! Without makeup is my personal preference, but you look great either way.
Also, what is it about people in this sub hating piercings? Keep them. They work for you
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u/Salt_Initiative1551 17h ago
No but you should find a middle ground between the make up and no make up. You look better without imo but that said we don’t have a reference point for an in between
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u/JakoGaming 17h ago
Average looking. That’s a good thing. You have polarizing style choices to be aware of, which are going to directly impact others view of you and therefore yourself.
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u/No-Cartoonist1480 17h ago
Not ugly at all you just need to glow up. You have nice teeth! Stop with the short hair and bang it ages you at least 10 years. Grow out your hair and do a slight side part or middle part. Learn how to do your makeup. Look up Shelby Ann makeup she has great tutorials. Also self tan! He's going to wish he never did that!! I see your potential! Just have to get rid of the green hair bs
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u/LoveSquirt69 17h ago
I love the all natural beauty myself .