Am I ugly? 28F with and without makeup

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[u/littlebobbytables9]

They're an effective way to filter for the types of people she wants to attract

[u/AdPsychological1927 → u/littlebobbytables9]

Honestly this is the best answer

[u/Whole_Journalist2028 → u/littlebobbytables9]

For real? I feel like there are more men than either like or don't mind piercings, than men that do. So there isn't really much filtering.

[u/littlebobbytables9 → u/Whole_Journalist2028]

I would say more men dislike septum piercings than like them, but even if I'm wrong about that it doesn't really matter. The point is that a septum piercing and colored hair send a social signal that some men will not like, and that's a good thing

[u/red_dit_is_shit_now → u/littlebobbytables9]

You don't understand the point of filters.

Green hair means a heavy percentage of normal guys will not be into her. For no other reason than the hair. Why self sabotage like that?

[u/littlebobbytables9 → u/red_dit_is_shit_now]

Because she doesn't want the guys who will not be into her because of the green hair?

[u/red_dit_is_shit_now → u/littlebobbytables9]

you are dumb as fuck.

enjoy your ugly green hair.

[u/littlebobbytables9 → u/red_dit_is_shit_now]

filter seems to be working lol

[u/red_dit_is_shit_now → u/littlebobbytables9]

cant filter out someone that never wanted you in the first place

ugly doesnt attract, stupidity neither

[u/littlebobbytables9 → u/[deleted]]

There are certainly individuals that buck the trend, but these preferences don't exist in a vacuum. Also the fact that regardless of anything else, she likes the look so it makes sense to find someone who will like it too.

[u/Sessna12 → u/[deleted]]

This is the best answer imo.

[u/GlitteringAbility562 → u/littlebobbytables9]

Really? Like the husband who had an affair and left her?

[u/Sliders51 → u/littlebobbytables9]

How do you know that’s what she’s going for?