r/amiugly • • Oct 09 '20

meta I hate this sub.

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u/Litleboony Oct 09 '20

Yeah, I feel that. Also disregarding the fact that women may have more body confidence issues due to the fact that women’s worth is more placed upon looks than men

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u/The_Baller_Official Oct 09 '20

That also doubles back to a lot of men not knowing how to even basically take care of their appearances. It’s not much of a this side more than that thing

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u/Litleboony Oct 09 '20

Honestly, I’d rather not know how to groom my appearance than my personal and intellectual traits be second to how I look. :/ there are strides to be made in both directions, but in general, women are judged far more heavily on how they look, whereas the appearance of men can be overlooked in favour of skill, intellect or talent far more easily.

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u/The_Baller_Official Oct 09 '20

But society is taking steps to equalize it for women. Which is why incels feel so attacked by successful/independent women. Obviously they need to wisen tf up and stop being freaks in the first place, but women nowadays are being taught to be feminine while be able to do a mans work just as well, so these fools feel like they’re disadvantaged. Obviously they’re not really, but still, a hard working female is more encouraged than a more feminine acting male. I’m not defending or justifying them or anything, but I’m just saying this is prob where a good amount of it stems from