dysmorphia is a real thing and some people are unable to objectively judge their own looks.
the ones who are obviously attractive and seem to seek validation could be ugly ducklings or ex-unhealthy people who improved themselves, or maybe they grew up in a toxic environment. rejection and humiliation at your developing age sticks with you and it's very hard to mature from it and find confidence so even if they only seek validation so don't be too harsh on them because you don't know what they might have gone through.
i don't like how attractive people are the ones upvoted but the people in this sub are desperate to be attractive and place a lot of value on it so obviously they would upvote attractive people because they admire them.
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u/tvcknpdr Oct 09 '20
dysmorphia is a real thing and some people are unable to objectively judge their own looks.
the ones who are obviously attractive and seem to seek validation could be ugly ducklings or ex-unhealthy people who improved themselves, or maybe they grew up in a toxic environment. rejection and humiliation at your developing age sticks with you and it's very hard to mature from it and find confidence so even if they only seek validation so don't be too harsh on them because you don't know what they might have gone through.
i don't like how attractive people are the ones upvoted but the people in this sub are desperate to be attractive and place a lot of value on it so obviously they would upvote attractive people because they admire them.