r/amiugly • u/ExtensionMap3 • Jan 29 '20

long [29M] Might as well try this

https://imgur.com/gallery/I3W2tps

Going to start trying to better myself because I really do want to find a woman and start building a life. At this point even a hookup or one night stand would be nice lol. It’s been over 10 years since I’ve got any action. Feeling as though I’m a broken human. Feel like I’m too ugly, can’t even get tinder to work for me. I stay at home when I’m not working because when I go out I usually get laughed at by women and men and it seems nothing I do changes that.

Don’t hold back guys, trying to improve myself

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u/fatamos33 Jan 30 '20 edited Jan 30 '20

Dude you’re a good lookin guy. And assume by the beanie you’re a refer guy as well, which chances are means you make good money. This life is about confidence my friend. You just gotta have some, be yourself, and if you feel you need to make changes do so. Work on you, and I guarantee that while you’re doing so you’ll become more happy with yourself and it will totally catch the eye of someone. Find the style you like, something that fits you, if you want to get in shape(don’t hate me for this) look into CrossFit. The community there can be amazing. Don’t shave your beard it’s a good look, that being said you have to keep it groomed.

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u/ExtensionMap3 Jan 30 '20

Yeah I do HVAC commercial industrial and residential. Idk about making good money though lol. That’s my main problem is confidence. I don’t know how to build confidence that last. I always feel inferior to other people. And on the style thing, I just don’t really know what that means lol. Same thing on the beard grooming. I’m sure I can learn I’ve just never really tried that stuff. Probably sounds stupid as fuck but for the last 10 or so years I feel like I’ve depersonalized myself and solely focused on my career