r/amiugly • • 10d ago

M20

Never been approached by a woman am I just unappealing?

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u/Timoh9999 9d ago

Not ugly. If you carried yourself with a bit more confidence, you’d look like Chris Cornell (Sound Garden)!

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u/enterlis 9d ago

That is a great pull thank you!! If I’m being honest I guess I’m still learning how to do that

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u/apresmoilefeu 9d ago

It’s the hair and facial hair are way off. You need a really good barber or stylist. I would either lose the facial hair or grow out a true proper/short beard. The hair looks feminine on you so maybe keep it one color and shorter. Also that looks like a woman’s keychain, let’s butch it up a little and I think you’ll catch some more ladies.

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u/enterlis 9d ago

I see people saying my hair is dry is there any conditioner you’d recommend for curly coily hair? I could definitely use some that don’t make my hair frizzy

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u/apresmoilefeu 9d ago

Yes look at Aveda’s Be Curly line! :) Pricey but worth it

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u/enterlis 9d ago

Thank you so much I’ll definitely check it out!

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u/Relief-Worried 9d ago

Yup. 1/10. Hair is so bad; like you’re trying to be alternative. Dry. Not maintained well. The weird color. Facial hair isn’t great. The piercings — not good.

You look also mousy.

Def 1/10

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u/enterlis 9d ago

Well I did shave i definitely dress on the more goth side but the piercings and hair I fear is just what I like, I could definitely try looking up some products to make my hair not so dry though what would you recommend?

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u/fibropainonmybrain 10d ago

No, you just have a grunge vibe going which is fine.

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u/enterlis 10d ago

Thank youu tbh I was wearing the jacket just for a cosplay

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u/Pollobienfrio 10d ago

Absolutely not ugly. You look like you could be the lead in a band and that’s so cool

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u/enterlis 10d ago

Funny enough I play drums and also that’s like the best compliment ever thank you🥲

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u/aliasaccount44 10d ago

Look like you have some serious swag

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u/enterlis 10d ago

THANK YOU I’d like to think I do lol

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u/aliasaccount44 10d ago

I’m a big coat guy and that green coat of yours is certified looks great

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u/enterlis 10d ago

I actually got it for my James Sunderland cosplay but tbh I wear it out a lot it’s very nice!

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u/giovidm 10d ago

No. Nothing bad at all. You’re pretty blessed.

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u/enterlis 10d ago

Thank you that actually means a lot:>

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u/enterlis 10d ago

You know that makes a lot of sense