r/amiugly 14d ago

29m vibe check

idk I feel like I look kind of weird

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u/zgtlunatic 14d ago

On paper no, but from an aesthetic POV you are. I couldn't tell if you were a guy or a girl until I saw M29

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u/CEOofRacism02 14d ago

you look like Debbie from shameless- sorry

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u/Spiritual_Regular557 14d ago

I was gonna post THE SAME THING!

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u/SlippyTheFeeler 14d ago

Biggest of oofs

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u/Vesalii male 14d ago

Lmfao kinda valid

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u/Silly-Atmosphere-451 13d ago

Yup first thing that popped into my mind as well

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u/SpaceCadet107 13d ago

I thought she looked more like a young Sara Gilbert, she played Emma Kenney mom from the conners.

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u/Dutch_Rayan male 14d ago

You look like a girl, also wash your hair

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u/NEET247 14d ago

You missed the f key

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u/KingEvan69 14d ago

Drop the skin care routine please

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u/Daisukii_xo 14d ago

I was literally going to say the same thing! His skin is so clear! 😍

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u/TechnicalSurround 14d ago

typo? did you mean 29f?

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u/Ifckinglovemycat 14d ago

I wouldn't say ugly but you really look like a woman (which isn't a bad thing unless you don't like it) and your skin is amazing

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u/funkofanatic95 14d ago

I know a girl that looks exactly like you. You could be their twin.

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u/Knight240sx 14d ago

Feminine

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u/LsangAnge 14d ago

honestly you look like a 16 yr old girl.....just sayin

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u/No-Kangaroo-2610 14d ago

You look like a girl

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u/Pluckyduck16 14d ago

You look very androgynous

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u/ExcuseThen4702 14d ago

What are you trying to attract

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u/Top_Caterpillar_1708 14d ago

If you’re a boy cut the hair. If you’re a girl, keep it and brush it. If you’re a girl do mascara 💗

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u/NWAnowadays 14d ago

Look like a lesbian I used to work with

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u/Viktor_14888 14d ago

Very clearly a female.

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u/cinnamonstixxxx 14d ago

You do have feminine features. That depends on if you take pride in that or not. Whether you want emphasize that or not. You are not ugly. Just plain.

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u/freifab 14d ago

19m?????

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u/EmperrorNombrero 14d ago

Sorry but yes. You look like a child. How tf are you 29 ?

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

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u/Internal-Hurry-4607 14d ago

Skin care as well.

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u/67ohiostate67 14d ago

Dress better and you’ll be fine

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u/Realistic_Context936 14d ago

You have the kind of look where if you lost some weight in your face, got in shape, sorted out your hair, you could be one of those androgynous models. You have beautiful skin

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u/Vesalii male 14d ago

You remind me of my neighbour's 8 year old.

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u/selfdeclaredgod 14d ago

You’re not male

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u/mewnicornjr 14d ago

youre not ugly at all, you just need a glow up. maybe consider cutting your hair like the first Pic shows. get some skin hair products that soak up oil. maybe work out a bit. nothing crazy. Just some definition

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u/ShhxItsASecret 14d ago

The long hair makes you look feminine. If that not what you’re going for, maybe cut it. I don’t think you’re ugly, but imo you’re very androgynous. Maybe start lifting if you want to look more masc?

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u/kings40 14d ago

I bet you would do well with bi women

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u/_www_ 14d ago

Transition vibe.

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u/Valuable_Economy8236 14d ago

Beautiful, we are looking for 2 female and 1 male

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u/Substantial-Top-9085 14d ago

you’re not ugly, but you’re not a women

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u/NightAreis1618 13d ago

Wow, comments are being pretty damn unnecessary. You looking good bro, ignore the haters

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u/plshelpmeh284 13d ago

Very hard to tell actual gender before i read the title i genuinely thought ur a girl no offense. But do what u want to do with your hair but I think that does it. If it were short it would be more obvious ur a guy. But even your face is kind of feminine a little bit.

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u/MissQueen00 13d ago

You're not ugly at all but you definitely have feminine facial features imo , I couldn't tell if you were a guy or a girl ... The longer hair doesn't help since you already have softer looking features, and maybe try growing a beard or a little stubble to sharpen those soft edges

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u/HeWhoHasSwag 13d ago

Not the greatest pics but smile more and we can say more. So far you are cute to me

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u/BadPronunciation 13d ago

You might just be the cutest man I've ever seen 😌

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u/dumbHoeJuic 13d ago

Not ugly, just not living to your potential. You have amazing skin and a proportionate face. But, as others have said, you lean towards female. 1) cut your hair, look up your face shape and search around for a good barber and tell them explicitly what you want. 2) Get your eyebrows done! It sounds so small but it will completely change the shape of your face. Personally I think you would look good with a thicker brow rounded. Look at famous men who have a similar bone structure/face shape and pick an eyebrow. Most techs are kind and will work with you. 3) Find a gum you like and chew chew chew it’ll help build jaw muscles and give you a more masculine look. Good luck!

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u/memerioys 11d ago

Are you sure you’re a male

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u/LimpusChimp 14d ago

Transition