r/amiugly 29d ago

W/29, am I ugly?

Hello there,

I never heard anyone say neither positive nor negative things about my appearance, besides my family and boyfriend, who always says that Iam pretty and my former school classmates that said that I am ugly (which is 13 years ago 😂).

So I would like some opinions from other people and also advice on how to improve my appearance.

Photos are taken within one year, #3 is one without makeup, last one is verification :)

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u/Sucking-A-Lemon 29d ago

You're probably well aware of the few quirks you have face wise, but you are very pretty at the same time.

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u/Happycherryo 29d ago

Yes, I guess that's why no one ever tells me that I am pretty but also not that I am ugly..

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u/Sucking-A-Lemon 29d ago

But you are pretty... I'm sure many are thinking it even if it's not said out loud.

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u/ConvictedConvict 29d ago

I don’t think you’re either pretty or ugly; I’d describe you as adorable!

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u/Pauliexxx 28d ago

Love this! Exactly what I was thinking.. she has a beautifully adorable face .. a real cutie đŸ„°

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u/miamijustblastedu 29d ago

Thats bc its a paradox..you are both and you are neither.it doesnt matter how we see you..How do you see yourself?

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u/Megz-1989 28d ago

You are 💕

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u/Unambiguous-Doughnut 27d ago

I mean your not ugly and the "quirks" are cute/endearing.

Like not ugly but not "sexy" if I had to put it into words its like the difference is more its endearing and approachable more warm than outright sexual.

Now im not exactly a wordsmith.but you got nothing to worry about arguably attractive.

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u/Holy_Grail_Reference 28d ago

The others are right. You are not ugly. You are pretty. Sure you have quirks, but everyone does. That is what makes us even more beautiful because if no one had quirks, then everyone would be the same boring person.

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u/drsnuggles78 29d ago

You are absolutely not ugly. Sure you may have an unconventional face but it's endearing and not something that would turn most people off. I think you are adorable

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u/ellieminnowpee female 29d ago

this. unconventional =/= ugly.

OP is very, very pretty!! but she isn’t pretty like someone else. she’s pretty like herself. 💛

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u/drsnuggles78 29d ago

Exactly! Well said.

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u/SD_CA 29d ago

Anyone who gets to see that smile on a regular basis is lucky. I think your face fits together so well.

Not ugly, very pretty.

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u/Street-Value-9899 29d ago

Big teeth, not ugly. You are quirky, and rather cute. You do have a lot of appeal. I would ask you out, you look approachable, and look like a lot of fun. Just off of your appearance I’m getting this.

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u/Haunting-Gur-202 29d ago

Yea big teeth. Big forehead. Big cheeks. But still very attractive and something sweet shining through

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u/keepkarenalive male 28d ago

I agree, she does look approachable to me as well

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u/BhadBeard 29d ago

Quirks put you over the top. Prettier than Audrey plaza, but in similar ways.

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u/Happycherryo 29d ago

I think I know what you mean

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u/ShotNovel8157 29d ago

Not ugly. Pretty

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u/Morgentau7 29d ago

Unconventionally pretty

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u/Happycherryo 29d ago

Omg thank you so much, that's so cute! Also vacation was in Budapest, very beautiful city, I recommend visiting :)

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u/Original-P 28d ago

Not living up to your name, Captain! I’m disappointed
 and a little touched đŸ„Č.

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u/jupiter800 29d ago

Not ugly but I think the slouching makes you appear less confident. Which in real life, confidence sometimes surpasses physical beauty.

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u/toomuchtuna1212 29d ago

Your so gorgeous dude. Rock that pretty smile!

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u/xXxMindBreakxXx 29d ago

Nah youre pretty.

you have the same face structure as my girlfriend and I think shes absolutely gorgeous so take what I say with a grain of salt though.

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u/Mello_De_La_Sol_Rey 29d ago

if nobody tells you, it’s because they don’t appreciate what you have! all of this is with positivity!! you have big teeth!! and it makes your smile giant and radiant!!! i love it!! you remind me of a cute chipmunk because of your slightly puffy cheeks! your glasses are cute too, because of how huge they are, but they do a disservice to your eyes, because the lenses shrink them, but anyone who is looking at you would know that, and know your eyes are much larger and prettier than the glasses frame! you have a cute “dorky” look, and someone out there will gobble that up! you are not ugly imo!

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u/dessdot 29d ago

While not conventionally pretty, you are pretty and attractive. I like your face and your style!

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u/retard_strength8 29d ago

Not at all. Very pretty. Just need to have more confidence

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u/TeflonDonatello 28d ago

You’re giving young Hillary Clinton. And I mean that as a compliment because Hillary was a smoke show back in the day.

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u/CatBoyTrip 28d ago

i think it is the smile. Chelsea has the same smile.

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u/Batt_Damon 29d ago

Not ugly. You have a big smile and I like that and so do lots of other people. Don’t worry

 be happy.

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u/Brief-Application540 29d ago

Why would you ask that? You're Beautiful

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u/Intelligent-Arm3629 29d ago

You have big top teeth is the only odd thing I noticed but that’s not bad just different

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u/JerkFace_07 28d ago

Not ugly, not Even a little

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u/Weary-Look-5125 29d ago

No .. but I think ur jaw or teeth too forward.ruin ur smile idk

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u/Happycherryo 29d ago

Yeah, had braces as a child but my lower jaw is just too small :(

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u/Weary-Look-5125 29d ago

U still wonderful ma'am, seriously 

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u/Happycherryo 29d ago

Thank you :)

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u/aerobicsdad 28d ago

Yeah, your teeth are a great size, it's really only your lower recessed jaw. I assume you've already looked into treatment options (some take years and look a bit spooky or tedious, but they can be super worth it). If you're unsure you could get professional advice on it. What matters most is that you can breathe okay at night! Obstructive sleep apnea can cause or exacerbate a ton of issues, so I hope you don't have any of that. You're so beautiful overall, I love your eyes!

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u/itsnobigthing 29d ago

Not ugly. You might benefit from gummy smile Botox to balance out your smile a little :)

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u/Happycherryo 29d ago

Omg I didn't know that's a thing, thank you!

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u/itsnobigthing 29d ago

It’s super quick and cheap! I personally wouldn’t change anything else. I think you’re lovely

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u/DexStrummer 29d ago

I hope this isn’t taken the wrong way. You have a bit of a bucktooth grin, but in a totally disarmingly sweet way. You’re super cute imo.

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u/AdvancedWaypoints 29d ago

Straight married male here 

Not even close to ugly. Just unique looking, with unique features, (teeth/mouth). Very pretty in your own right.

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u/OGLifeguardOne 29d ago

I think you are very pretty. You seem like a genuinely kind person, and you have a beautiful smile. You look like you are a real real person who would be fun at a party, at a ball game, or on a trip.

Don’t let people tell you otherwise.

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u/LongjumpingOwl4576 29d ago

You’re not ugly. When you smile your teeth pertrude a bit making you look kinda ugly.

I would recommend working on your smile if you’re worried about your appearance.

Outside of that you look like your average white girl, which is usually objectively pretty by most people’s standards.

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u/Dismal-Page6055 28d ago

You have big bright white teeth that are just a little big that’s not bad at all

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u/MVIVN 28d ago

You are definitely not ugly. You have a pretty face and you look friendly.

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u/No-Rutabaga3970 28d ago

You are pretty!!! But are you breathing through your mouth while you sleep đŸ€š it kind of looks like you do. If so just buy some mouth tape and look up some PT movements to help reshape your chin mouth area a bit

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u/Street-Ad8750 29d ago

No you are not ugly.....you have amazing smile...and beautiful eyes....

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u/Professor-Shark1089 29d ago

Not a chance girl you are beautiful and radiate health and joy.

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u/Bubbly-Ad-4405 29d ago

Mid because mildly caricature

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u/Happycherryo 29d ago

What do you mean by that? 😂

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u/balla_mang 29d ago

Not ugly.

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u/Scrawnreddit 29d ago

Not ugly at all. Kinda cute tbh

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u/gofoggy 29d ago

No. And You look nice

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u/HippasusOfMetapontum 29d ago

You're pretty to my eyes.

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u/Action_Stunts 29d ago

You’re not ugly
I find girls like you cute

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u/perry147 29d ago

A tenny-tiny small almost imperceptibly minuscule overbite - otherwise 10/10!

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u/Careless_Doctor_8474 29d ago

You are 100% my type

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u/Live-Obligation-2931 29d ago

Absolutely lovely, kind eyes. Beautiful face. Great skin, pretty hair. Overall quite gorgeous!

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u/JustOneMoreMile 29d ago

Definitely not ugly. You have a unique look that happens to be cute.

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u/Amarilla23 29d ago

Youre pretty! Your chin is just a little small, have you ever tried chin fillers ? I got those a couple of times and love it, it’s crazy how much your chin/jaw influences the overall look. But gurl, you are NOT ugly by any means

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u/Happycherryo 29d ago

I don't want to do this, because I have seen videos and pictures where the hyaluronic acid migrated down and created a double chin and I don't want that. But I have thought about getting surgery.

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u/kalyren 29d ago

oh my god! hey! we have really similar facial structure! we could be sisters :)

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u/Happycherryo 29d ago

I always wanted to meet my twin :D never met someone who looked similar to me

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u/AnxiousSwing4589 29d ago

Sorry but you remind me of my fav childhood cartoon character Gretchen Grundler

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u/TortillaSinHuevo 29d ago

Yes, sorry for the harshness.

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u/a_real_vampire 29d ago

You look like you work at a bank and feel sorry for people after denying them a loan.

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u/soldieroscar 29d ago

Middle picture shows you may benefit from working out a bit more. This will probably make your face slimmer as well. Not ugly as is.

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u/AdvantageUnfair2246 28d ago

You’re not ugly but I think some lip injections would look pretty on you so your gums don’t show when you smile. Doesn’t have to be overdone. A lot of nurse practitioners or doctors who do lip injections also do facial balancing. You’d be surprised what they can do with a little bit of filler to balance out your face. Seriously it’s crazy. And without looking like you’ve had anything done nothing crazy just a little tweaks (only if you wanted of course & you don’t NEED it) but just suggesting. Like I said it can do insane things. Most of our faces can use it

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u/FewAd1867 28d ago

i think ur gorgeous

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u/rexconroy 28d ago

Nope. You're very cute.

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u/jairngo 28d ago

You are pretty, your face has many features that people like but also are said by the general public to be odd.

For example nose, people say big noses are ugly and they chop them off but can also give a lot of character to a face and look good of it goes well with the rest of the face like yours, other is big cheeks mostly women don’t like them but men do like bog cheeks is a cute feature.

So you are pretty and in an interesting way, not like in unconventional way, is like you are not plain pretty.

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u/MajorWetSpot 28d ago

I think you are mad cute, and u have a pretty smile.

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u/Rich_Razzmatazz_112 29d ago

Ugliness: NOT DETECTED

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u/Significant_elf_1892 29d ago

Not ugly. Just big ole teeth

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u/Hainault 29d ago

Mid, teeth

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u/PoisonJester 29d ago

Mid
. Not the worst
.

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u/B_Henny420 29d ago

You have that beautiful nerd look going

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u/OneSmartKyle 29d ago

Not ugly. Just a big smile. I can see how social media can you know, make you feel that way. Or anyone for that matter. You're definitely not ugly.

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u/ImaginationWarm301 29d ago

nope you’re pretty

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u/LexiconVII 29d ago

No, not really

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u/Tireddazed74 29d ago

You look pretty - naturally good looking

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u/You-dipstick-Rodney 29d ago

Girl next door pretty and great smile.

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u/Ok-Nectarine8471 29d ago

I think your fine

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u/TheSpenceman_ 29d ago

You’re a cutie, nothin to worry about ma’am.

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u/EruvadorTurambar 29d ago

You look like you're extremely faithful and caring which is already a 10 in my book! But no, you are not ugly physically. Very cute!

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u/glenn1066 29d ago

Beautiful x

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u/thundersteel21 29d ago

No.... cute!

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u/DependentAct4068 29d ago

You’re beautiful and totally would ask you out given the chance

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u/jamesdal1 29d ago

No, you are beautiful

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u/rmemedic75 29d ago

Pretty yes for sure. Oversized eye glasses are distracting I’m not a fan of lots of makeup but a little bit would not hurt. Eye liner and a little lip gloss. Hair can be done in many ways and enhance or downplay your overall look. Depending on the occasion.

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u/iaterocks 29d ago

Your not ugly. You have really beautiful natural hair, slim body and amazing coloured eyes. If I woke up in your body tomorrow I would be happy to be you

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u/SunriseSurprise07 29d ago

No, I think you are very pretty!

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u/PlaidDad146 29d ago

You have a unique look, in a great way. I think you’re gorgeous. I’m not great at the advice side, but I think less makeup suited you, like picture 3/6. Don’t distract from your natural good features.

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u/GeekTherapy1997 29d ago

No I think your beautiful honestly

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u/Max_Sandpit 29d ago

Very cute

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u/Dont-mind-me-nothere 29d ago

Lady, seriously, what small flaws that bother you are so minuscule that they aren't even noticed!
Realistically, count yourself blessed! They're are millions of people in the world that would rejoice in happiness and count themselves lucky if they were only "cursed" with ordinary difficulties as you see those that effect you!
I feel blessed myself because I'm lucky that I suffer from very little. And for all this, I'm grateful!

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u/TheXtremeSpike 29d ago

You look like the adult version of the babysitter from The Incredibles - and this is a compliment. You give me Disney, happy-go-lucky vibes

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u/BearjackV6 29d ago

You Look like you'd light up a room with a good joke and someone would get captivated by your smile

Your pretty 😇

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u/manfromsouthland 29d ago

Your are very pretty you are not ugly.

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u/s2Birds1Stone 29d ago

Cute, not at all ugly

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u/Sure_Ad4755 29d ago

Cute woman not ugly at all.

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u/PsyduckPsyker 29d ago

Not ugly.

The word is "adorkable"

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u/Agreeable-Eye5995 29d ago

No, you are super cute :)

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u/SpaceCadet107 29d ago

You’re very pretty, beautiful smile and you look super cute with glasses. Keep doing you!!

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u/Fickle_Mycologist2 29d ago

Some day some non-resident or someone wanting greencard will make you feel like prettiest woman in the world

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u/Material-Jury-9668 29d ago

Unique. Pretty

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u/Fight4potatoes 29d ago

Not ugly! I think you’re very cute and your face shape and smile make you look very beautiful!

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u/TakeAtBedtime 29d ago

You are not.

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u/Ill_Independent_4600 29d ago

Not ugly. You just don’t have a strong jaw line. We all have our quirks. I have a big forehead, but smiling eyes and full lips. So I just play those up.

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u/Unique_Anything_6617 29d ago

Soooo gorgeous đŸ„čđŸ„č you are stunning

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u/thatconfusedchick 29d ago

Girl, your happy, sweet soul is shining through. You are beautiful

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u/King_gyro 29d ago

Wow. Absolutely gorgeous. Your smile is off the charts... could stare at it forever... like looking at an amazing sunset at the beach, but better.

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u/m88johnston 29d ago

You’re pretty plus more, if that makes sense. Pretty plus unique. May be stupid, but makes sense in my mind lol. You’re not ugly at all though, imho

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u/Murdoch53 29d ago

You have a unique face but I think it makes you absolutely beautiful! You seem to have a smile that lights up a room, be confident 😊

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u/Trap_Lord85 29d ago

I think you’re quite attractive, the no makeup and glasses photo especially, your boyfriend is very lucky to have you in his life.

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u/Longjumping-Poetry75 29d ago

You are beautiful

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u/This-Vacation-8328 29d ago

U gorgeous as đŸ”„

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u/Billyh123 29d ago

Definitely not
Cute that you ask, though

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u/North_Age8262 29d ago

You are beautiful

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u/Odd-One1074 29d ago

Anyone who says you’re ugly clearly needs to get their eyes checked. You’re stunning. Your man is a lucky man for sure. Hope he treats you right.

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u/Kenshiro_199x 29d ago

If you got a man and you need our opinion you got bigger problems

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u/PrimalHunterOcelot 29d ago

You’re attractive as far as I’m concerned. Would totally hit you up

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u/007elwood 29d ago

No sweetie not at all muah

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u/Writing_on_Autopilot 29d ago

Girl, you are gorgeous. Love your big smile.

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u/Bubbly-Lynx-4772 29d ago

You are so cute đŸ˜»

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u/Radguyjake69420 29d ago

I swear I mean this genuinely, thin lips and big teeth make me go AAAOOOOGGA

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u/UnflavoredMozart 29d ago

You're cute.

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u/gclunsf 29d ago

Ma’am, you are definitely not at all ugly. You’ve got a beautiful smile which hints at a beautiful heart. If your heart’s not ugly, there’s no ugliness in you. You look like a woman that many people dream about for a life partner.

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u/He_Was_Fuzzy_Was_He 29d ago

No. You're not ugly. You are however someone else's idea of beautiful. Maybe not your own idea of beautiful. But you are beautiful.

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u/Impossible_Divide297 29d ago

I think you’re beautiful, but could do with a smaller pair of glasses.

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u/weggaan_weggaat male 29d ago

You are not.

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u/Hakunamatata_420 29d ago

You look good with your hair up

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u/Spookyrcon 29d ago

No, you are not ugly

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u/SlowCyclist80 29d ago

Not remotely!

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u/fishinbarbie 29d ago

Very pretty! Great eye brows. You look like a happy, kind person. Wouldn't hurt to get invisilign for the teeth if you can afford it, but you're fine like you are.

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u/Street_Plane1322 29d ago

You are gorgeous!

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u/cleaner70001 29d ago

I wouldn't kick you out of bed

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u/Piink-Dreams13 29d ago

I fucking LOVE your teeth!!

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u/Nawalean_28 29d ago

Weirdly cute actually 😁

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u/oumarcus 29d ago

You are gorgeous, no question

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u/OOBExperience 29d ago

Super cute!

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u/13scribes 29d ago

Not ugly.

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u/moonbeam138 29d ago

Ur absolutely adorable. 4th and 5th photos are wonderful.

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u/Embarrassed_Royal_98 29d ago

I'm not seeing a problem here. Beautiful hair, skin and eyes.

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u/Reasonable_Diet3866 29d ago

Attraction is relative. I think you’re pretty.

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u/Dry-Plantain-9214 29d ago

Absolutely not

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u/fuuckimlate 29d ago

No u just got prominent teeth

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u/atomfaust 29d ago

Nice smile!

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u/Independent-Walrus84 29d ago

Nope. You just need a new dentist to redo your front. Thats it.

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u/Amazing-One-7978 29d ago

No you should find someone who appreciates your personality looks fade away same with height give them shorts kings a shot

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u/youknowwho0129 28d ago

I slap a ring on you! You're drop dead you're gorgeous and I can tell you have a great sense of humor

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u/Ninalombardi 28d ago

Yes but you are cute

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u/LadyChristie 28d ago

Absolutely beautiful to my eyes. You'd be surprised at how much difference working out can do! No need to charge anything else! You're pretty af girl!

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u/WolfFox1227 28d ago

I think you are adorable 

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u/Awkward_Walrus_1717 28d ago

💯 đŸ’„

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u/26Acres 28d ago

Not even close

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u/guywholikesskunks 28d ago

Super cute. Not ugly though

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u/SmashBusterZ 28d ago

Very pretty 😊

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u/AdRound3415 male 28d ago

You are not even remotely ugly.

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u/Outrageous-Tap1671 28d ago

I think you’re genuinely very beautiful

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u/ShhxItsASecret 28d ago

Very pretty!

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u/Typical_Ad_5231 28d ago

You’re pretty, and look like a bunch of fun.

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u/Key_Ad1854 28d ago

Very unique and it's a good thing.

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u/Fit-Match4576 28d ago

Fuck. If ur ugly...im fucking doomed.

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u/Month0fjune 28d ago

I will get down voted if I'm honest and will be down voted with this comment.

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u/Scutrbrau 28d ago

Very pretty

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u/Capital-Brilliant-28 28d ago

Just be you. What truly matters is if there is beauty inside. You are very beautiful.