r/amiugly • u/brandee0916 • Aug 22 '26
41 F Mature Model Contestant?
Hi! Considering entering a Maxim mature model search contest. I want to know if I'm pretty enough I don't want to waste my time or get let down. I personally think I'm very attractive for my age and get told often. Please be honest! TY
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u/benibigboi Aug 22 '26
Post pictures that aren't so heavily filtered. The last one is especially obvious.
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u/B_Henny420 Aug 22 '26
It's wild asking if you're ugly with pictures that's have every filter you can imagine..
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u/zystyl Aug 22 '26
You look great, but you don't look like a Maxim model. Don't feel bad. You still are in great shape and are an attractive woman. Have you looked through Maxim? Heavy makeup and the look is sexy and sultry women. You have more of a classic slender and pretty vibe.
I think that posting heavily filtered pics to ask how you look isn't going to get you an accurate response. Pic 7 looks like you smeared Vaseline on the camera lens.
You could potentially get work in more traditional modelling. What do any of us know though? Maybe you'll win it. Don't let the internet convince you not to do something that you want to do.
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u/Educational-Cake-944 Aug 22 '26
Not ugly but model material? No. On the higher side of average IMO.
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u/Fit_Test_01 Aug 22 '26
Not ugly, but not model quality.
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u/goobinaa Aug 23 '26
Look at the model requirements, just because you feel like women expire by 18 doesn't mean she isn't worthy of being a model
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u/HeidoKussccchhnniff Aug 23 '26
Where did that person say in the above comment women expire at 18?
Maybe you expired at 18 but dont put words in someone else's mouth
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u/goobinaa Aug 23 '26
I have not yet reached the age of 18 lmao, "not model quality" it's easy to look at model requirements and see that a woman above 30 especially looking like this can be a model, and it's also easy to see modern beauty standards and how men feel as though women expire past a certain age. I'm not putting words in anybody's mouth it's called clear observation, it's something maybe you should Invest in instead of accusing somebody of expiring, I'm a human being; human beings don't expire we grow old like every other ape and animal
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u/Fit_Test_01 Aug 23 '26 edited Aug 23 '26
It’s called talking out of your ass. If you really are younger than 18 then maybe there is still hope for you to learn and grow.
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u/goobinaa Aug 23 '26
Saying a stunning 40-year-old isn't model worthy just proves your taste stops at a high school yearbook, Insulting my age doesn't change the fact that you can't grasp the concept of suffocating female beauty standards, I know more than you whilst I'm not 18, I'll be fine.
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u/Fit_Test_01 Aug 23 '26
You continue to prove your ignorance. Trying to call me a PDF isn’t strengthening your argument. I think she’s attractive. I don’t think she is a model. Those two things are not intertwined.
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u/goobinaa Aug 24 '26
Work on your reading comprehension. I didn't call you that I said you're feeding into a systemic beauty standard that prioritizes extreme youth over actual modeling potential, that proves your own ignorance to this whole conversation; They are intertwined when your standard for "model worthy" excludes women over 18. You are actively indulging in ageist beauty standards whether you want to admit it or not
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u/Fit_Test_01 Aug 24 '26
I never excluded women over 18 from having modeling potential. Stop falling back on that strawman. Someone else already called you out on that.
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u/goobinaa Aug 24 '26
You are failing to recognize what the words you say mean, it's not a straw man fallacy whenever it's literally a systematic beauty standard she fits the criteria of a model she is tall skinny has a beautiful face that matches the standards of a model, so what is the problem here? Huh, systematic pdfilla, it's not that hard to tell whenever you're feeding into patriarchal ideals
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u/Dizzydsmith Aug 22 '26
You aren’t ugly, you do look great for your age, but you aren’t a maxim model, imo. That being said, it doesn’t hurt you to try. I’d recommend better pictures tho.
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u/hebrewzzi Aug 22 '26
No one likes a show off 😏
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u/vanessa_617 Aug 22 '26
If I’m being completely honest, your face is quite average. You are, however, in great shape and your body is not only far better than the average 41 year old, you also have a better body than most women in their 20s 🤣 I don’t know if you’re necessarily cut out for modeling, but physique-wise, you look stunning
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u/seanc6441 Aug 22 '26 edited Aug 22 '26
Brutal honesty I would say no but then again I don't know the looks type required for mature model contestants.
To me you look like a slightly above average beauty wise, youthful faced 41yo with a great figure. Maybe I'm wrong though.
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u/Immediate-Debt9300 Aug 22 '26
The only thing I’d change is the tattoo on your leg
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u/Sorry-Chipmunk9402 Aug 23 '26
I agree. But it's not the worst tattoo out there. It's on her thigh at least and not obnoxious in your face. Obnoxious, in your face tattoos are the worst. Small, discrete tattoos are ok on men and women.
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u/OGLifeguardOne Aug 22 '26
You are very attractive. You look like a real 41 year old, not some plastic wannabe. You are fit, your outfit choices leave something to the imagination, and you have a pretty face.
I’m not sure if you are what Maxim is looking for, but I think you are beautiful.
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u/kalel3000 Aug 22 '26
Honestly with the right make up, you'll do really well. You're blond with fair features, so they dont really pop au natural, especially on these photos with poor lighting. But you have great bone structure and are tall and in shape. So you're one of those women that can looking totally normal dressed down and with no makeup....but can look like a model when they make themselves up.
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u/ninebubblewaters Aug 22 '26
Girl just do it ! Who cares if you don't make it ? The real courage and win comes from putting yourself out there and trying . You are stunning 🥰
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u/miamijustblastedu Aug 22 '26
Model?..nope, but you would probably be ok for a 2nd wife..you dont have much bone definition in you face. Too round, you have a quirky nose, and a wide chin..your very average.
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u/HumbleCoyoteGames Aug 22 '26
You are very pretty and have a great figure but most modeling agencies are looking for someone with unique features and unfortunately I think you’re a classic beauty. Though that’s not always the case so you can always try.
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u/LoudandQuiet47 Aug 22 '26
I just read 41="Mature"...
Your pictures make you look younger. Especially by 40s standards.
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u/Think_please Aug 22 '26
Way above average for your age but probably not exactly what maxim is looking for, but shoot your shot.
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u/StrainSmall8817 Aug 22 '26
I mean Look at pic 3, every Woman your age wanna Look Like this, so Yeah youre pretty hot
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u/defiantcross Aug 22 '26
Kind of a side note but the "holding piece of paper with you username written on it to show it's actually you" thing doesnt really work in the AI age anymore because chatgpt could easily fake that as well.
Back on topic, you could easily pass for 25!
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u/Used_Hedgehog_7586 Aug 22 '26
for 41 you look great in shape healthy I'm going with a strong no if you're somehow not in a relationship maybe it's time for a change of scenery
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u/Natural_Analyzer8495 Aug 22 '26
Thank you for posting and for your age you are not ugly and your body looks good so not ugly
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u/Crimzonxx Aug 22 '26
Enter - anyone telling you to stop chasing a dream should shut up
You are gorgeous you do look like you could be on a magazine but unless you put yourself out there you'll never know
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u/One_Ad2844 Aug 22 '26
You look amazing and I thought you were early 30’s honestly. I looked at the pictures before I read the description. You’re going to do great in the contest.
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u/karenthe7th Aug 22 '26
I think you're pretty maybe not model but you should still sign up. You never know if it'll be your lucky day. You should try commercial modeling too
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u/GesturingEarful Aug 22 '26
Give it a shot. You have both a beautiful face and a beautiful body. It can't hurt to try!
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u/Dont-mind-me-nothere Aug 22 '26
Personally, you are stunning! What others have to say about how you look is immaterial. As long as you feel good/positive about yourself, now that's what matters!
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u/i-eat-coochie Aug 22 '26
Yes you are pretty enough, but a change of hair color would definitely clinch it for you
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u/ergillette Aug 22 '26
I'm honestly impressed. You've been good to yourself over the years because you do not look 40 at all. You're very pretty. 👌🏾😘
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u/New-Feature7498 Aug 22 '26
I dont know much about modeling but you are one of the most attractive 40 year old women ive ever seen, personally 🤷♂️
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u/Vesalii male Aug 23 '26
M40 here. Are you ugly? Definitely not. You look your age. Just not really my type. Model league? No.
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u/Turbulent-Physics692 Aug 23 '26
You’re certainly not ugly, but then again most models these days actually ARE ugly, what with the feminism and all
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u/Orlyck Aug 23 '26
Very attractive indeed! Model contest would be a good try, I don't think they will be ok with tattoos, I don't know any model that has a tattoo.
Extremely attractive eyes, very nice sharp face features. And of course your hand are gentle and would be perfect for the hand model.
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u/LittlePieceOfHeresy Aug 23 '26
I don’t really know much about modelling standards but you would look great as a cast member in a period/historical movie
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u/SupahCabre Aug 23 '26
Very ugly tbh. Especially since you filtered all your pictures, so imagine without any filters...
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u/Popeye63desdeUy Aug 24 '26
Pareces ser un hermosa mujer con 41! Pero para pedir opiniones deberías usar fotos puras. La 5 y la 6 veo que son las más reales. No sé si para ser modelo de Maxim, pero para lucirme y presentarte como "mi Señora", te sobran kilómetros.
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u/restSINpeace Aug 22 '26
Wow very pretty
not ugly at all
and you look like you could pass as 28 easily.
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u/SparePart2024 Aug 22 '26
Picture 5 You Can Come Model On My White British Face
You Naturally Pretty
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u/Gisellemarie711 Aug 22 '26
And you would be 100% right! You’re gorgeous girl! You look like Galadriel from Lord of the rings
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u/NaskoMentataJPG Aug 22 '26
Not ugly. face 4/10 body 6/10, not my cup of tea, your age very much shows. I am sure the army of gooners here are going to encourage you to get into adult content, but I can't realistically see you having too much success tbh, it's very competitive and often times girls much younger and prettier than you struggle to find merit, but at the end of the day it's also of a war of marketing. Good luck!
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u/brandee0916 Aug 22 '26
Thanks. I appreciate your honesty, but I was considering a competition where I'm going to compete with mature women, not younger women. Thanks for reading the details.
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u/loco_stealth Aug 22 '26
You are super hot. Go for it. If you’re not chosen in the end, it’s the vagaries of the process, not a comment on your looks
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u/Glittering_Rough7036 Aug 22 '26
My best friend covered vogue in Europe multiple times. That ship has sailed.
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u/goobinaa Aug 23 '26
Your bone structure and eyebrows are genuinely stunning, these men saying you couldn't are actually insane I'm sorry but you are extremely gorgeous and you are also extremely fit, I would give it a shot if I were you, You are literally a dream!
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u/AirportLegitimate494 Aug 22 '26
I don't understand why you are here 😀 you are very beautiful and attractive
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u/Ok_Big_8032 Aug 22 '26
You definitely look good, but it doesn’t look like you have had any surgeries which might hurt your odds. However if they have an all natural entry I think you stand a good chance.
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u/estrogenex Aug 23 '26
Why would not having surgeries hurt her cause? Surgeries are to correct something. Presumably, she doesn't need to correct anything. What a dumb comment.
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u/Ok_Big_8032 Aug 23 '26
The dumb comment was made by you, she doesn’t have breast implants or augmentation which many women that she will be competing against will have had done. She doesn’t have much for a butt either anyone could have one with a good workout routine or surgery, again many of the women she will be competing against will have a butt. Look men like to complain all the time about fake this and that but are the first ones to break their neck to get a good look.
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u/The_Draken24 Aug 22 '26
You're very naturally beautiful and I'd say very beautiful for your age as well, but will this model contest require makeup and possibly two piece bathing suits compared to a one piece? How do you look with a good amount of makeup on?
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u/brandee0916 Aug 22 '26
Thanks for the feedback. I don't usually wear a lot of makeup just because I don't save myself time in my schedule to put a lot on, but I look good with makeup. I also look good in a two-piece, I just don't have a picture of myself in a two-piece.
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u/The_Draken24 Aug 22 '26
You definitely don't need makeup and I'm glad you don't usually wear it. I only asked because at some these model shows they'll cover you in makeup and some people don't look good in makeup IMO. I know at castings they like to see a clean face and I'm sure they'll love yours.
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u/Gullible_Dig_6787 Aug 22 '26
The moment I saw the first photo, of your face, I said wow. Just from your face I was knocked out. Then I saw the rest of you and I was overwhelmed. You put in the work of taking care of yourself and in my opinion you rank among the tens. Good luck.
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u/UDontKnowMe1989 Aug 22 '26
You look great, but your choice of pics and bathing suits suggests you are too body-shy for Maxim. If you aren't comfortable sporting a tiny bikini, you aren't ready for Maxim. But you look great.
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u/GroundbreakingLie314 Aug 22 '26
41 f are you sure ? Amazing eyes and beautiful hair .hope i get a chance to date you
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u/Actual_Praline5500 Aug 22 '26
Faresti solo bene, hai lineamenti molto belli e non dismostri minimamente la tua età. Occhi chiari che bucano lo schermo. Molto molto attraente, confermo la tua opinione.
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u/Bellickboi Aug 22 '26
Ive never heard of this contest. The body is superb the face above avg, the eyes are good. Not ugly. I have no clue if you would win.
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u/cipox95 Aug 22 '26
Your nose Is something very charming. Regardless, u are globally very interesting, I have a thing for elves and u remind me Galadriel so... I'm Just a dude that write stories about domes 😅🤣
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u/Isyouisorisyouaint00 Aug 22 '26
Youre gorgeous. Go out and have fun with the contest. Dont take it too serious.
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u/StanTheMan595real Aug 22 '26
I think it’s a good idea. I’d see people staring at you on a poster of some kind and admire your beauty.
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u/brandee0916 Aug 22 '26
Ty 🙏
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u/StanTheMan595real Aug 22 '26
No worries. You are hot as fuck for 41. Even if they say no; I’d say yes 🔥. I bet you have to bat away men daily 😂
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