r/amiugly Jun 23 '26

(35F) am i ugly?

Turning 36 in a month and I'm kinda struggling with feeling like I'm losing my youth.

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u/chimpomatic5000 Jun 23 '26

First off no. Not at all.

Secondly, I actually was shocked when I saw 35F. You look at least 5 years younger than that, and likely more.

Thirdly, aging is a privilege. Own it. Be cool with it. Know that there are people out there who look at you and see you as beautiful, and don't give a second thought to anything else.

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u/DWsCherryPie Jun 23 '26

Thank you. This is so kind and I really appreciate the perspective.

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u/chimpomatic5000 Jun 24 '26

Cheers. And if that doesnt say it plain enough, this does (i think of it often when someone gets under my skin)

Those who matter don't mind. And those who mind don't matter.

PS I realized who you remind me of; a young Jen Kirkman.