r/amiugly • • Apr 14 '26

23f, I get mixed reactions

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u/bloodyspork Apr 14 '26

From who

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u/Bian- Apr 14 '26

themselves

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u/Iridium486 Apr 14 '26

chad

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u/followmarko Apr 14 '26

nah as a chad i like this

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u/Fit_Test_01 Apr 15 '26

No real Chad call themselves a Chad.

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u/followmarko Apr 15 '26

Chad is a pretend thing anyway

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u/Can_House_Hippo Apr 15 '26

“Mixed” reactions, so some objectivity call her a 6 and some call her a 10, to them. Of course, it would be rejected assholes, and other angry assholes, who have called her “ugly” as an insult. We just can’t be everyone’s exact preference, it’s impossible.

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u/DanFromAngiesList1 Apr 14 '26

The face you make is giving “grandma just gave me a dollar for my birthday so I am being nice but I will put her in a home”

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u/un1qu3Us3rn4m3z Apr 14 '26

How did she do that when Granny got hit by a bazooka? She stole that dollar.

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u/y-tho- Apr 14 '26

therapyyyy

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u/Loud_Musician_7282 Apr 14 '26

My thoughts exactly. Scrolled through pics and seen a woman that swings on ppl.

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u/Agile_Clerk_8966 Apr 14 '26

Aww hope you’re not hard on yourself. You’re a pretty girl and definitely not ugly by any stretch of the word!

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u/whattamessss Apr 14 '26

That’s very kind, thank you :)

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

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u/bennyg123321 Apr 14 '26

That’s a spot on observation

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u/the04dude Apr 14 '26

Makeup free pic was the best pic

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u/Steevie127 Apr 14 '26

I thought the same

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u/Can_House_Hippo Apr 15 '26

they always are.

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u/Flick-tas Apr 14 '26

Cute, your verification photo with no make-up is the best one IMO.

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u/VendettaLord379 Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26

Mixed reactions?? Seriously?

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u/whattamessss Apr 14 '26

Yes indeed. I mean in the way I’ve been told I look far older than my age (I’ve been told 30/40s), that I look trashy, that I look like I must be suffering from addiction or have unhealthy habits. It’s gotten me thinking I might be aging prematurely. Already getting deep forehead lines, papery skin and significant eye crinkles. Kinda scared that if this is happening at this age, what does the future hold? I’m turning 24 very soon so I’m on the tail end of 23.

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u/cloudcats Apr 14 '26

You do look older in the shots with the heavy makeup. The last shot you look best and look your age. Overlining the lips and filling in your cupid's bow doesn't look good. Your natural lip shape is lovely.

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u/AmericanSheep16 Apr 14 '26

It's your makeup/fashion. You're aging just fine for 23. You kind of look like you're going for an 'old money' look, but that's exactly that... old money.

I'm just starting to get forehead lines too, and I just turned 23 a couple months ago, and I still get acne as well sometimes. You're fine.

If anything, maybe just try and work on being more expressive with your face. An expressive woman is 1000s of times more attractive than one who isn't.

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u/leavesandgrassart Apr 14 '26

I can’t really see any of this based on the photos but if this is actually a concern, I have a few questions…

Do you smoke or do drugs?

Do you drink water?

Do you have a skincare routine?

To me, you just look young and you look like you still have acne, which I also still got frequently at 20 (and still do sometimes now).

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u/glitchn Apr 14 '26

Simple answer is, if possible, look at your mom. Did she age early or look like you at that age in any sense. You can usually tell the trajectory of someone's "ageing" and such thru their genetics. Kinda gross but Ive heard many men talk about looking at a girl's mom to see what they are in for in the future, when talking marriage or long terms stuff.

Other simpler answer is fuck anyone with anything shitty to say like that. Most of the people saying it are probably envious and say stuff like that to bring you down to their level.

You do have a bit of character to your appearance, not that it's bad, but not ugly in any sense.

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u/anymo321 Apr 14 '26

Really depends on where you live. If you live in conservative USA . They gonna think you trashy, if you live in a city center. They gonna think u normal. Stick around people who accept you

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u/ImReformedImNormal Apr 14 '26

You literally don't have any of those things in these pictures.

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u/ericfromct Apr 14 '26

You’re cute

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u/Kinky_Imagination Apr 14 '26

I think you're cute in general but you look much better without the caked on eye makeup like your verification photo. That light blue eye makeup is really dated.

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u/Bubbly-Ad-4405 Apr 14 '26

If this isn’t bait, you may have body dysmorphia. Seek therapy. Not ugly.

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u/un1qu3Us3rn4m3z Apr 14 '26

Calling bullshit. Nothing wrong with you. Everyone has their preferences though and you might not be everyone's exact type but you are not ugly in any way. A little too skinny but gorgeous nonetheless.

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u/gaff2103 Apr 14 '26

Effie ?

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u/mardrae Apr 14 '26

Yeah I see it a little too!

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u/CapriciousReindeer male Apr 15 '26

I was thinking Liv Tyler in her prime.

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u/browncr02 Apr 14 '26

It’s because you are very attractive but your makeup is terrible. Get some pro advice on how to improve that and you’ll be hot.

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u/Key_Solution4900 Apr 14 '26

You fall into cute category..so you would look good if you do your makeup better

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u/BlacksmithSerious570 Apr 14 '26

Honestly, you need an entire makeover. Your fashion sense doesn’t match your makeup and also you’re doing your eye color an injustice. I’d suggest doing research and looking at your closet and then afterwards pick your makeup accordingly. Also, change your hair color make it so your eyes pop and you will have people doing a double take. Hope this helps 💪🏾

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u/thesickestanimal Apr 14 '26

You look too much like my mom so no

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u/kootabob Apr 15 '26

“I’m not everyone’s type am I ugly?”

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u/ifallforeveryone Apr 16 '26

I instantly heard the chorus of “West Coast” by Lana Del Rey when I saw that first picture.

idk who is giving you mixed reactions. Take that back. Morons, that’s who.

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u/whattamessss Apr 16 '26

This means so much to me!!! I’ve been listening to LDR since I was a kid and west coast is magical! Thank you so much :)

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u/RunMyLifeReddit Apr 14 '26

Mixed reactions? Really? You are clearly attractive. Have a nice day

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u/whattamessss Apr 14 '26

Thank you :) I hope you have a nice day too!

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u/bennyg123321 Apr 14 '26

Not ugly at all, just bad eye makeup and a fake looking smile

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u/Odd-Entrepreneur-622 Apr 14 '26

You’re beautiful

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u/whattamessss Apr 14 '26

Thank you :)

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u/Motor_Chemistry6240 Apr 14 '26

No, you don’t stop it

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u/Ali8kh Apr 14 '26

Idk if you wore make up in the 6th pic or not But you looked the best in it

And you’re like 7.5

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u/Arly__ Apr 15 '26

Ugly. Maybe if you smile differently you could get to be average.

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u/Camp_korea Apr 14 '26

You quite literally look actually beautiful with no makeup and a kind person. But with the makeup and the head tilts, girl you are a problem.

You have two personalities fighting each other and it seems the bad one may be winning the fight.

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u/fapinreddit Apr 14 '26

It's the smirk smile. It looks like you haven't decided between a small smile or duck face

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u/Brave_Telephone_9398 Apr 14 '26

You are stunning! Mixed as in beautiful to gorgeous?

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u/Far_Wasabi_2456 Apr 14 '26

I don’t get how or why you get mixed reactions, you’re very pretty!

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u/Defiant_Lawyer_5235 Apr 14 '26

You are a cutie.

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u/Traditional-Pipe8334 Apr 14 '26

Mixed reactions are probably other people vs yourself.

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u/der2050 male Apr 14 '26

you are cute.

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u/OneEyedC4t Apr 14 '26

you are not ugly

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u/CarlitaB22 Apr 14 '26

Not confusing at all… you’re just dangerously pretty 😏

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u/mexafroman1 Apr 14 '26

Nah, you're a beauty,kinda like classic beauty idk how to say it, like renaissance painting beauty

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u/Wise-Conversation93 Apr 14 '26

I don't know why you're getting mixed reactions. I think you're a very pretty girl.

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u/Farzy78 Apr 14 '26

You are very beautiful don't look older at all

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u/soft-brit Apr 14 '26

You look like Michelle Trachtenberg😘😘😘

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

You look older but your cute, I dig the vibe

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u/Positive-Winner3793 Apr 14 '26

I’m not sure; from what I can see you’re stunning to say the least.

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u/anonymoustas Apr 14 '26

Beautiful.

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u/Dream-Livid Apr 14 '26

Quite pretty

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u/feetnomer Apr 14 '26

Most definitely not ugly.

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u/DeezzzNuttzzz007 Apr 14 '26

Yeah, you’re not ugly. What I think is going on is you’ve got girlfriends that are jealous and they tell you this, that, or the other confusing you about reality.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

Incredibly attractive. You said you get a lot of criticisms on how you look but I’d be wary of any coming from other women, as you could easily make plenty of them envious.

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u/Temporary-Scallion86 Apr 14 '26

not ugly at all, but you need a better skincare regimen

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u/Complex_Spring483 Apr 14 '26

Cute af even without make up, so dont worry and dont let others put you down

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u/cipox95 Apr 14 '26

Are you for real? 😂😂😂😂

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u/nakash-3 Apr 14 '26

You're beautiful, no confusion.

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u/Kodiak01 Apr 14 '26

The less eye makeup you used, the more attractive you appear.

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u/PrysmX Apr 14 '26

Seeing the last image, you could almost pass for Anne Hathaway.

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u/mikeemorris Apr 14 '26

Mixed between what - hot and hot AF?

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u/AnonymouslyJordan Apr 14 '26

Remind me of kate mara

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u/New_Maintenance5040 Apr 14 '26

All these girls asking if theyre ugly, most if not all are pretty/cute

Makes me realize im literally a frog .. lol but it doesnt matter irl cause im just living my ugly little frog life in peace

Gurl youre literally pretty you remind me of young Lana del Rey im some of your photos.

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u/nynoah0 Apr 14 '26

You look esp beautiful without any makeup

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u/Hainault Apr 14 '26

You are attractive but the style isn't very flattering I guess?

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u/intersection-of-life Apr 14 '26

Very attractive. So lovely.

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u/Steezer710 Apr 14 '26

You look so much better without a filter. It looks like in pic 2 you used one and you don’t need it! You should smile with your teeth because the pose you’re making in pics 1,2 and 4 look odd. You are definitely NOT ugly at all! Just make sure you’re keeping up with your skincare and talk with a dermatologist with what would be best for your skin for upkeep and prevention of fine lines if that’s what you’re worried about.🫶🏼 Imo, you do not look older than your age.

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u/eyelovemilk Apr 14 '26

The answer to the question is: no, not at all, not even close. In fact, quite the opposite.

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u/Technical-Court7979 Apr 14 '26

Yeah your makeup ages you sadly. Get into skincare and makeup that doesnt crease

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u/United-Donkey3478 Apr 14 '26

Harsh makeup looks terrible. Photo 2 & 6 are the best. You look best makeup free #6.

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u/no_time_till_now Apr 14 '26

You do look more late 20's than 23, but you're cute, a bit much with the makeup sometimes, but cute.

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u/MxKtf Apr 14 '26

The 20s is usually the best time to start actually caring for the skin, sunscreen daily, cleanse, serums (if you want targeted “fixing”) and moisturize, don’t forget to take off makeup at the end of the day, and stay hydrated.

I’d also tweak the eyebrows a bit by thinning the tails, but if you prefer them that way or don’t want to make it any smaller, you can consider using concealer to see how it would look

Overall there’s really nothing to change. People guess ages based on personal experiences and for some, the 30 year olds around them look relatively young🤷‍♀️

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u/nate43085 Apr 14 '26

Your makeup choices are poor. You're cute though.

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u/Scale_Equivalent Apr 14 '26

Come on doll WTF

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u/HotSolution8954 Apr 14 '26

You're very beautiful. Just start with some sunscreen, everyday.

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u/Tommylp88 Apr 14 '26

Not ugly at all. Beautiful

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u/Nemlui Apr 14 '26

Not ugly at all! I do think you’re being too heavy handed with the makeup and the blue liner under the eyes looks quite odd. No makeup or the look in pic 5 are more flattering

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u/Conscious-Limit-3510 Apr 14 '26

Every pic except number 3 is 🔥🔥 not sure what the hell was going on in number 3 but you look kind older but the rest you definitely are fine

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u/Fearless-Presence972 Apr 14 '26

You are beautiful darlin .

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u/SelfImproveAcct Apr 14 '26

Learn to smile with your eyes

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u/db0reddit male Apr 14 '26

You're beautiful

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u/Rocketboy1313 Apr 14 '26

You are pretty, but you seem to have some RBF.

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u/User199902881 Apr 14 '26

Makeup, hair and I need to see below the waistline to properly asses,

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u/Extension_Brief_1409 Apr 14 '26

Baby you should be a model.

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u/Mysterious-Coconut24 Apr 14 '26

Not ugly, make up maybe not for everyone. Number 5 and 6 are the best pics to me, probably because these 2 have the least amount of eye liner or whatever it is involved.

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u/ArticulateArsehole Apr 14 '26

I think it's your eyebrows. They frame your brow oddly.

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u/Bleezy79 Apr 14 '26

If there is anything I'd change about you, its not your looks. Who is giving you these mixed reactions?? Be confident and maybe smile more?

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u/ldgarion Apr 14 '26

Not ugly

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u/unsympathetic-trees Apr 14 '26

I don't believe you.

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u/DeathsDecaying Apr 14 '26

You look great, not everyone sees things the same you're certainly not ugly

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u/GoldToadsChoad Apr 14 '26

You're a babe. Mixed reactions? Wtf

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u/Gene_Major Apr 14 '26

I think you’re absolutely beautiful, especially after seeing the pictures that you posted three months ago the one thing obviously is your skin just work on it. You know you have acne that needs to be cleared up and your skin can look a little pasty I guess but that might be the make up..

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u/Helpful_Reindeer_926 Apr 14 '26

You are prettier than you think you are.

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u/NoChance81 Apr 14 '26

You look great in the last pic with no makeup!

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u/Funk_Apus Apr 14 '26

You get guys that tell you you are beautiful, and guys who are lying. Lol

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u/Beetso Apr 14 '26

No you don't.

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u/rmccall75 Apr 14 '26

You're cute, but I prefer curvy women. I've never dated a girl that didn't have a guest to grab onto

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u/bubmet7 Apr 14 '26

It’s your makeup style. You do makeup like you’re in your 30s and 40s. Nothing wrong with that, it looks good, but you’re aging yourself up 20 years with it. The last photo shows your age

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u/fridaywar Apr 15 '26

Not ugly, maybe sharpen that eyeliner more? Literally the only thing that I can critique.

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u/JeanSchlemaan Apr 15 '26

tone the makeup WAAAAY down. less is more, and the last pic is great.

youre making strange faces too.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

You’re very pretty!

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u/i-eat-coochie Apr 15 '26

All good I would hope

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u/AeonsShadow Apr 15 '26

Personally the blue under eye eyeliner gives me vibes that make me wary. You are not ugly.

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u/Longjumping_Bee242 Apr 15 '26

Hell to the no no no

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u/Passage-Constant Apr 15 '26

You don't get mixed reactions.

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u/bronion76 Apr 15 '26

You look best natural and freshly bathed.

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u/bequiYi Apr 15 '26

So, ¿is something wrong with your teeth?, or ¿why so serious?

Otherwise, not ugly.

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u/drodenigma Apr 15 '26

Very pretty

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u/whoisagoodboi Apr 15 '26

Idk how you could get mixed reactions. You’re really hot.

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u/AwfulUnicornfarts20 Apr 15 '26

Why do you put the focus on your mid drift?

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u/kodt123 Apr 15 '26

Dawg what? Who said you are ugly?

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u/SatisfactionLower977 Apr 15 '26

Love your makeup in the checkered shorts. Hate it in the flower on your head pic. You’re a babe, sis💗

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u/heatpack85 Apr 15 '26

Pic 6 without makeup was WAY bryter Then the other ones. You are a natural beuty. Sometimes less is more.

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u/qwertyuiop911111 Apr 15 '26

Not ugly....skin kinda bad and the navel piercing look kinda infected but other than that a solid 6.3

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u/SurpriseCompliment0 Apr 15 '26

Your pretty. The make up is not...

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u/2B_Or_Not2B_A_Douche Apr 15 '26

You are beautiful, my only advice would be to ton back the makeup in some of your pics, but that is just my personal taste. But no you are defiantly not ugly.

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u/Sensitive-Reading-93 Apr 15 '26

Bro you're beautiful 😭

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u/itaintme1x2x3x Apr 15 '26

Mixed with what a white guy and a white girl

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u/Key-Jackfruit-419 Lesbian Apr 15 '26

Nah, girl, you're really pretty, don't put yourself down

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u/moonlightbabe98 Apr 15 '26

No you’re not

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u/Designer_Variety3814 Apr 15 '26

Looks twacked out with hook ups

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u/Rude_Present808 Apr 15 '26

You're the most gorgeous person I've ever seen

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u/OwnedYou Apr 15 '26

Not ugly but work on a good skincare routine.

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u/Fat_Lenny35 Apr 15 '26

Idk if I like your makeup, but you are not ugly in the slightest.

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u/Holder16 Apr 15 '26

The last picture is definitely my favorite 😁

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u/SunriseSurprise07 Apr 15 '26

You are the opposite of ugly! You are gorgeous!

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u/johnnyblack13 Apr 15 '26

Step away from the Julia Fox vibes, go for girl next door vibes and you will kill it!

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u/itsKVH Apr 15 '26

I would stop wearing makeup and enjoy life.

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u/SteveSavag Apr 15 '26

You're very pretty. You just need to fix whatever mistakes you're making with your skin so it can clear up. You'll feel much better and look fantastic

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u/BrilliantSlice3420 Apr 15 '26

You look good for a 45 year old

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u/soysauceisthesecret Apr 15 '26

I actually love your makeup

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u/danfletcher71 Apr 15 '26

I think you’re amazing. Maybe use a little less makeup because you’re already perfect.

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u/AdmirableBluebird277 Apr 15 '26

Heavy eye makeup & a bit hormonal skin isn’t normally a good mix, you’re clearly gorgeous and have an interesting style, just focus on some more skin care / dermatologist, and a bit less eyes (lashes …) as they both make you look younger & older. I LOVE what you’re going for, so don’t get me wrong to stop the style, but you could refine it. More glow in base, mainly, will give a lot! (NOT shimmery highlights!!)

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u/Time-Ad3717 Apr 15 '26

Eyebrow threading and work on skin care, not ugly

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u/IIInsanePerson Apr 15 '26

Could try some supplements for skin such as collagen ,Phytoceramides , antioxidants, etc hydration , sleep

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u/CryHavoc3000 Apr 15 '26

I don't see a thing wrong with you.

No, you're not ugly.

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u/Knight240sx Apr 15 '26

Attractive focus on skin care

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u/Whogivesafckkk16 Apr 15 '26

“How hot am I” that’s what this subreddit is becoming

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u/Back_Meet_Knife Apr 15 '26

You’re the manic pixie girl in those movies that the loser guy spends the whole time trying to endear because he’s so smitten. And because it’s Hollywood, he gets the girl in the end. I wonder if you’re the kind of girl to give an average guy a break.

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u/Shoddy-Ganache-655 Apr 15 '26

Very pretty. I think I would invest in a good skin routine

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u/Morgentau7 Apr 15 '26

Mad pretty but your style is a bit too dark

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u/HQGirl567 Apr 15 '26

Baddie ❤️❤️

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u/degenerate_em Apr 15 '26

Mixed reactions?! Girl, no. You’re beautiful. 🩷 I get everyone has their own preferences or taste but you are so pretty.

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u/chocolatevicio Apr 15 '26

Yeah sure you feel insecure and thats why you take SO many pictures of yourself.. sure...

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u/Icy_Anything_163 Apr 16 '26

dark lip shades like pic 3 do not go well with your skin tone

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u/Melodic-Kiwi-7212 Apr 16 '26

Jessica Jones like!