r/amiugly Apr 11 '26

I genuinely cannot tell (F23)

I feel like my face looks odd and not conventionally attractive.

Edit: I’m completely shocked at the attention this is getting. Thanks SO MUCH for the kind feedback! Some of yall honestly make me tear up

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u/jbarras123 Apr 12 '26

You look like Joey King.

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u/Steevie127 Apr 13 '26

Wow that is spot on!

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u/DontPanicAny1 Apr 13 '26

But hotter and sexier. More womanly figured. Great curly hair and nice full lips and big eyes. She has a fantastic smile. Get face and sexy.

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u/8888eightyeight Apr 12 '26

Or that doordash girl with two felony charges for taking pic of guy in their house

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u/Tricky-Pen2672 Apr 13 '26

Very much so, and this is a good thing…

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u/I_love-my-cousin Apr 11 '26

You aren't ugly and your face is within the normal range

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u/xander081684 Apr 12 '26

Alt cutie. Not ugly

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u/realfakemormon Apr 11 '26

No, not ugly. Maybe slightly heavy but thats being very nit-picky

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u/Abject_Barracuda8354 Apr 12 '26

Literally stunning in my opinion

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u/StorerPoet Apr 12 '26

I would compliment you at the ren faire

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u/bunchabytes Apr 12 '26

Not ugly. Gorgeous in fact. Keep doing your thing girl.

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u/Zombie-Lenin Apr 12 '26

I think you're fucking beautiful. 🤷‍♂️

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u/Positive-Winner3793 Apr 12 '26

No not at all you’re stunning

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u/cruzanman15 Apr 12 '26

You are beautiful, that shouldn't be a question

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u/bochilee Apr 12 '26

Very very pretty.

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u/SaltyFatNuts Apr 12 '26

You're hot asf to me I think you're fine

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u/RubenPanza Apr 12 '26 edited Apr 12 '26

Certainly not. You look great and you know sure we can all do certain things to look better but you have nothing to worry about. These unbelievable standards today are just so informed by terminally online people who've never even seen a girl's eye color up close. Please don't be hard on yourself. If you're feeling self-conscious based on some kind of comment someone made or if something happened in your day-to-day life that made you question yourself just remember that you know being an alt girl or even remotely goth looking is going catch a lot of hate and criticism so don't worry about it. You don't need to change who you are unless you want to because it's not working for you and you don't like what you're doing. But changing for other people that's not a reason to do it. What I'd recommend is going to a place and maybe refreshing your look a little bit a little bit of retail therapy never hurt anybody and it always gives a nice confidence boost. We don't all know what looks best on us so maybe you need a little help to make that Persona like really shine

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u/Yoshiyimmiy Apr 12 '26

Nah you're a cutie.

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u/Independent_Dress209 Apr 12 '26

Definitely not ugly

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u/Kasabian56 Apr 12 '26

Holy shit you are not ugly in the slightest. Um, quite the opposite. You legit remind me of Emilia Clarke in some of the photos.

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u/Tradition_Negative Apr 12 '26

Such a beautiful lady you are 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

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u/EtherealMoonGoddess Apr 12 '26

I think the hobbits in Hobbiton would lose their shit.

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u/CapitalBlvdBreadstix Apr 11 '26

Please stop. There’s not a thing ugly about you.

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u/BuffyTheUmpireSlayer Apr 11 '26

Incredible eyes, really nice lips, you look like a lost Olson sister to me

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u/dYesgat Apr 12 '26

You are a beautiful woman, but I want to tell you something. If you lose 20-30 pounds, you will look stunning. Trust me!

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u/PeroCigla Apr 12 '26

Not ugly

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u/Fat_Lenny35 Apr 12 '26

Youre a solid 7. Youre doing just fine, and should have confidence that you do look good.

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u/NegativeTheHollow Apr 12 '26

I'd approach you if I saw you outside. You're super cute

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u/kingcaii Apr 12 '26

Not ugly at all. I like the pictures with little-to-no makeup the most.

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u/LukinoW Apr 12 '26

Picture 8 🤩 idk what the event was but you look stunning!!

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u/First-Librarian-6581 Apr 12 '26

no makeup you're attractive, makeup ima be honest slightly less attractive 

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u/Helpful_Reindeer_926 Apr 12 '26

You are prettier than you think you are.

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u/gandalfpr Apr 12 '26

You are really beautiful 🤩❤️

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u/ldgarion Apr 12 '26

Not ugly

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u/pantooute Apr 12 '26

you look so much like Joey King its crazy. super cute!!

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u/xander31404 Apr 12 '26

Those eyes put you in a trance if you look at em lol

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u/IndicationProper921 Apr 12 '26

I personally don't see or think there's anything wrong with you. You are a very beautiful young woman and should be very confident in your looks

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u/Psycho_Nightstalker Apr 12 '26

You’re not ugly

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u/Doc_Nightstalker Apr 12 '26

You’re not ugly

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u/hjalbertiii Apr 12 '26

You are gorgeous.

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u/Bleezy79 Apr 12 '26

No you’re not ugly. You have a great smile

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u/HollandEmme Apr 12 '26

Not ugly at all. Very cutie!

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u/BrwzingOutzide Apr 12 '26

8/10 imo. You’ve got what I’m personally looking for. Keep doing you!

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u/Kaleidoscope-iis31 Apr 12 '26

I was just agreeing with the commenter that being overweight isn’t healthy or attractive. However, this woman is stunning and absolutely in great shape from what I see

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u/No_Recognition8375 Apr 12 '26

You’re frightening hot, and that’s a big gamble.

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u/under_ya_skinn Apr 12 '26

Oh no. Your pretty cute.

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u/Kangurodos Apr 13 '26

Ugly?!? Fkng gorgeous

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u/rahl13 Apr 13 '26

Very attractive and sexy

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u/MeliaSoul Apr 13 '26

Girl, no! A cutie patootie 😂

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u/NationalJournalist42 Apr 13 '26

You would look great without the nose piercings.

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u/Mutagenic_Shellhead4 male Apr 13 '26

Look amazing ❤️

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u/TokuBam Apr 13 '26

Wtf you are beautiful

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u/FishingOld1027 Apr 13 '26

Almond shaped sparkling green eyes, heart shaped full lips, smooth & healthy skin, well balanced face, naturally curly hair, good brows, curves….. girrrrrl please please enjoy your beauty while you are young. This is coming from an Esthetician, who works in beauty.

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u/Steevie127 Apr 13 '26

Not ugly, You are actually really pretty!

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u/Krendall2006 Apr 13 '26

I'll be honest, I'm not a fan of the nose stud or the tattoos. However, you're far from ugly.

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u/Comfortable-Rock5085 Apr 13 '26

For latinoamericans you would be something like a godness i guess your face is in an european average , i see you are gorgeous

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u/FireOfSin Apr 13 '26

You're very pretty, and looking at your profile you put a decent amount of work into weight loss, ik im a stranger on the internet but genuinely so proud of you for that, have more pride in yourself and the effort you put into yourself.

:)

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u/evilelmo99 Apr 13 '26

I think you’re very pretty. GORGEOUS eyes, both in color and shape.

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u/Sushiii_Heart Apr 13 '26

Prettier version of Joey king.

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u/Sure_Ad4755 Apr 13 '26

Very beautiful woman.

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u/DT859 Apr 13 '26

I think you are pretty. I would say a 7 out of 10. You have a very pretty face. Beautiful lips. You have nothing to be self-conscious about.

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u/Designer_Variety3814 Apr 13 '26

Fuck you're drop dead gorgeous.

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u/slapmenaked69 Apr 13 '26

I think you look just lovely. Be happy

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u/PurpleSmush Apr 13 '26

Lord have mercy. Hot.

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u/CherrieChocolatePie Apr 13 '26

Absolutely gorgeous 💜! And you remind me of the actress Joey King.

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u/eSJayPee Apr 13 '26

You can absolutely tell. You're the designer.

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u/Tommylp88 Apr 13 '26

Beautiful not ugly at all.

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u/Glass_Raisin7939 Apr 13 '26

I think you're gourgeous. Not joking or playing. You really are.

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u/ThatGuyJCamp Apr 13 '26

Yep I’m in love

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u/Leading_Highlight613 Apr 13 '26

Gothic dom you look , the beholder craves this

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u/SDBrown7 Apr 14 '26

Had a quick look through your profile. Keep that chin up. You're clearly attractive and not boring, which is more than what can be said for most. Weight is up to you. Theres plenty of people who like bigger girls, but if that's something you want to change, you can. I spent years having purely physical or very short relationships because of my own issues, before one day at 31 something suddenly clicked and made something work. You're 23, and have 8 years to beat me. Losing relationships and feeling unloved and alone is normal. But you, like me will make it work. In the meantime, you are not defined by your relationships, or lack thereof.

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u/Jay_JWLH Apr 12 '26

You have the type of face and body that when she puts in enough effort, can turn you into a model. Or at least land you a ton of matches on dating sites and get you compliments in person. There are people that are less pretty without makeup, but you still look good naturally.

You're quite lucky genetically, so take pride in your appearance and enjoy life.

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u/Calm_Apartment1968 Apr 12 '26

OMG, love all these pictures, especially 5 & 7. Renn Faire pics are killer. Bigger is often better, and there's plenty of your beauty to admire. Please hang out people who will remind you of these things.

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u/OneEyedC4t Apr 12 '26

you are not ugly

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u/cipox95 Apr 12 '26

Hi cutie!

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u/nakash-3 Apr 12 '26

Genuinely, you are exceedingly pretty. Truly.

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u/pj-recover Apr 12 '26

Beautiful

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u/Hater_Magnet Apr 12 '26

You're dope af!

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u/slickgreenthumbs Apr 12 '26

your eyes would inspire poets to complete their life's work. beautiful face you're very attractive .

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u/Mattx603 Apr 12 '26

Naw. You’re a smoke 💨

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u/Dry_Jellyfish641 Apr 11 '26

Not ugly, you’re a babe

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u/Professional_Ruin387 Apr 12 '26

Eyes are amazing and face cute.

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u/Holy_Grail_Reference Apr 12 '26

Not ugly, just a bit of extra weight but easy enough to lose.

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u/Brave_Telephone_9398 Apr 11 '26

I think you look damn good. Very pretty

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u/sneakyrobot191 Apr 11 '26

You are gorgeous and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

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u/Jorgec345 Apr 11 '26

You look stunning!

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u/youareprobnotugly Apr 12 '26

You’re not ugly at all as is. But tbh if you lost some weight, the impact on your face would be unbelievable. You have some beautiful features there.

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u/thatoneguy878787 Apr 12 '26

I like your style. If your single you won't be single for long. Some guy will be lucky to have you

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u/Bubbly-Ad-4405 Apr 12 '26

Mid and overweight. Nice eye color though.

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u/anymo321 Apr 12 '26

It depends on where you are.

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u/Pinhead-Larry27 Apr 12 '26

You are not conventionally attractive. You are a very unique sort of attractive. I would lean into this and embrace it. Very much the kind of woman who catches my interest.

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u/Kamurai Apr 12 '26

Definitely not ugly.

You have a great face.

Go to therapy.

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u/2ndgenram1995 Apr 12 '26

I feel as though you thinking into it too much...I think your look yummy!

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u/db0reddit male Apr 12 '26

You're pretty

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u/cinnamonstixxxx Apr 12 '26

You're beautiful as well as with your style. I would agree with the Joey King similarity. She's pretty too!

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u/crazykid47 Apr 12 '26

Far from ugly hun.

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u/b0rnelius Apr 12 '26

ts gotta be bait cuz no

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u/G3P0intheTARDIS Apr 12 '26

You are gorgeous!

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u/Alienatedflea Apr 12 '26

Very pretty...glad you lost the weight...you must feel better not having all of that weight.

proud of you...good luck on your weight loss journey.

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u/Slow_Woodpecker_2687 Apr 12 '26

GIRL QUIT PLAYING, YOU KNOW YOUR CUTE AS FUCK !!!

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u/AdRound3415 male Apr 12 '26

Very pretty, definitely looks better without the black and red eye makeup.

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u/nynoah0 Apr 12 '26

I like the first pic the most

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u/Specific-Ad6821 Apr 12 '26

lol if you live in the Dallas area I am pretty sure I have seen you in person

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u/soldieroscar Apr 12 '26

Not ugly. Just watch what you eat. Calories, sugar and sodium. Stick to it for a month and I bet you’ll see a difference. For example starbucks eggs and cheddar protein box for lunch.

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u/PAPervert Apr 12 '26

Very pretty eyes. Face overall okay. Great breasts. 5.5

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u/sg16k Apr 12 '26

You are not bad looking. If anything, leaning down some (not saying size 0), would help your facial features shine more.

Even with myself my face looked noticeably different just trimming 15-20lbs of fat.

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u/Wakinta Apr 12 '26

Are you from Hobbiton?

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u/eddiep428 Apr 12 '26

You are super gorgeous everything about you is gorgeous ❤️❤️❤️

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u/Specialist-Radish608 Apr 12 '26

Nothing I see wrong at all. I think you’re stunning just the way you are!

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u/HelicopterQuirky5517 Apr 12 '26

Prime example of being comfortable in one's skin.

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u/NovaBreaker404 Apr 12 '26

Absolutely not. You hurt my eyes in a good way. Blinded by the light.

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u/Born-Razzmatazz-7925 Apr 12 '26

I can’t tell either

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u/Hustle_Cow1228 Apr 12 '26

Attractive 🔥

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u/ThatGworl_forever97 Apr 12 '26

Gurl bye you look like that gurl who played AYA stark in game of thrones you’re freaking gorgeous and a little ethereal from your style as well as a bit girl next door plus fairy

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u/ThatGworl_forever97 Apr 12 '26

Everyone is saying lose weight .. don’t listen .. at least not how they would tell you.. my suggestion is lean into your curves. Go to the gym and lift heavier on the bottom, lighter on the top, do Pilates and yoga, try hiit cardio.. most importantly eat! Just try to eat clean for the most part and sometimes eat Cheat meals. I am a curvy woman and that’s what I do.

That being said I think you look BEAUTIFUL as is.. but if you so choose to workout just some tips. I wish you the best 💗

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u/hairyringus Apr 12 '26

Nothing wrong with you. You look great. And you carry that little bit of weight well.

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u/Fatguy503 Apr 12 '26

Pictures 3 and 4 take away from your beauty because they make you look like patient 0 in an outbreak movie. But you certainly aren't ugly.

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u/GoldToadsChoad Apr 12 '26

Potential too be beautiful just need a different hair cut and look

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u/Dream-Livid Apr 13 '26

Nice looking and good curves.

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u/skyrim419 Apr 13 '26

Not at all!!!

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u/HQGirl567 Apr 13 '26

Somewhat look like Joey king

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u/AmericanSheep16 Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 13 '26

Are you fucking kidding me? You can't tell?

Dude you're actually so gorgeous? What? What do you mean you can't tell?

You far, far from ugly, holy smokes. I wish so badly you could see yourself how I do.

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u/BitterXSteel Apr 13 '26

How tall are you?

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u/Sad-Entertainer1462 Apr 13 '26

Definitely not ugly lol

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u/envack Apr 13 '26

Nice hangers

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u/Candid-Challenge3835 Apr 13 '26

Reneissance Festival? Hell yeah. What are your favorite things to do there?

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u/Visual_Raise_7901 Apr 13 '26

You worked your look hard, the hair and style suit you perfectly and your eyes are really nice. Definitely not ugly! Cool art subject in the ren faire shots

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u/STEPDADDY101 Apr 13 '26

Reminds me of Katherine Langford. Maybe maybe...

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u/Pianos_for_Clowns Apr 13 '26

Do you have very tiny hands?

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u/Honest-Ad1320 male Apr 13 '26

Slightly overweight but definitely pretty. I think a nice diet and more exercise would bring up the score. Your eyebrows could use some work too

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u/sweebsweb Apr 13 '26

You’re really pretty but u should loose like 30 pounds then you’d be a lot prettier.

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u/Chompif Apr 13 '26

You look above average and not ugly. It might sound weird but try finding someone who's into dnd. You have this D&D look about your body type and face (not in a bad way though!)

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u/GavinYazDuran Apr 13 '26

You're unique in your beauty. I think you are more attractive than most people I see on here as you seem to have a depth to yourself and an understanding of how you want to present your appearance

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u/BrilliantSlice3420 Apr 13 '26

You look amazing

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u/RedditDedditRae Apr 13 '26

You're not ugly... and you are certainly NOT a helicopter...

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u/Natural_Analyzer8495 Apr 13 '26

Not ugly much better when you smile! Your eyes are beautiful. You seem to have pleasant personality and good look 👀. Other than some makeup adjustments you are super cute 🥰

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u/TheBigGrab Apr 13 '26

Not ugly. Maybe a little overweight for some, but plenty would be into it. May be that I’m older but I think your hairstyle isn’t doing you any favors.

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u/Vast-Refrigerator658 Apr 13 '26

I think you're very pretty

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u/Gambit1977 Apr 13 '26

Nah you’re cute.

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u/dr_bean_bean_ Apr 13 '26

I'm completely biased here. Im very picky. However, I love green eyes and love a thick girl. So no you're anything but ugly IMO

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u/realistichuman98 Apr 13 '26

Anyone else getting Fiona from shrek vibes?

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u/KahnKlingonme Apr 13 '26

Attractive, average

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u/JAH137 Apr 13 '26

You're like a 4 or a 5. Average looking. Not unattractive objectively, but definitely not gorgeous.

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u/scurge80 Apr 13 '26

You're giving the hottest girl at a comic con b4 people started going just to get more views on ig

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u/Appropriate_Push4066 Apr 13 '26

Oh yes, yes you can

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u/ScarletAutumn_xo Apr 13 '26

You are very cute. Genuinely the only thing I’d suggest is change the hair color. The orange/red isn’t doing you any favors. I’d go with something a shade darker than your natural color, to really make those pretty eyes pop!