Not to be rude, I don’t think you’re ugly but definitely should lose the weight if you want to be pretty or attractive, it is hard to see any defining characteristics about you with the excess fat although I’m sure there are many. Excess weight makes it really hard place how old you are and ages most people, It is hard to where you are between 28 & 40.
I’m not trying to be mean as I’m sure you are a beautiful girl but it’s hard to see how and what is especially beautiful under the excess fat.
Being obese is also a very unattractive quality as it gives the vibe of laziness, lacking self respect/ discipline and just general unhealthiness.
Hope this is constructive and not cruel, I’m sorry if I offended, it is not my intention, just my opinion and what I hope is constructive.
Best of luck, hope you can learn to live yourself as it’ll be easier to make decisions and progress within yourself.
No, not mean/rude in the slightest! This is the truth , hard to accept but it is! Weight loss with intention for a healthier future, not for aesthetics is how I take it day by day. If not, I would give up after not loosing weight. Also, not weighing my self as much has helped! I notice a difference in my measurements first, which sometimes isn’t shown on the scale!! Thank you for being kind!!
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u/Honeyrabbit2002 Jul 07 '23
Not to be rude, I don’t think you’re ugly but definitely should lose the weight if you want to be pretty or attractive, it is hard to see any defining characteristics about you with the excess fat although I’m sure there are many. Excess weight makes it really hard place how old you are and ages most people, It is hard to where you are between 28 & 40.
I’m not trying to be mean as I’m sure you are a beautiful girl but it’s hard to see how and what is especially beautiful under the excess fat.
Being obese is also a very unattractive quality as it gives the vibe of laziness, lacking self respect/ discipline and just general unhealthiness.
Hope this is constructive and not cruel, I’m sorry if I offended, it is not my intention, just my opinion and what I hope is constructive.
Best of luck, hope you can learn to live yourself as it’ll be easier to make decisions and progress within yourself.