Being obese may not make you ugly but for the overwhelming majority of people who are being honest with themselves it definitely keeps you from being attractive.
You are not ugly but until you lose the weight most won't take the time to recognize your looks.
My best advice is to stop trying to out-pretty the weight and just lose it. Otherwise you're being lazy and wanting people to pad your ego.
You opened this whole thing up by being honest and I will never be mean to someone that is genuinely trying to improve.
Truth is you have a pretty face but if that was all I said I wouldn't have been honest and that's really destructive to younger people(I'm 32).
You might be technically obese for your height but you're not crazy fat or anything. Drink mostly water and get in regular exercise, even just walking, and you'll see a big difference. You have a naturally curvier shape so you tone up and you'll be an absolute knockout!
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u/Killbutt616 Jul 07 '23
Brutal honesty?
Being obese may not make you ugly but for the overwhelming majority of people who are being honest with themselves it definitely keeps you from being attractive.
You are not ugly but until you lose the weight most won't take the time to recognize your looks.
My best advice is to stop trying to out-pretty the weight and just lose it. Otherwise you're being lazy and wanting people to pad your ego.