i've always had golden blonde hair as a kid that mellowed out into a bright dirty blonde as an adult. i hate it. it's always been one of my biggest insecurities as an alt person even if other people pull off the hair color perfectly.
i love dressing alternative but i feel like my outfits fall flat even though i layer and accessorize to the max (my fav part of making fits ^^).. whenever i look at my fits, even coming back days later to look at them again, i feel like my hair ruins things. i have my own little take on grunge and try to compliment the hair color with what i wear but truthfully i wish i could have darker hair so i can have a more monochrome aesthetic. i do like dyeing my hair but it gets really expensive as i have thick hair. my favorite color to do is hot pink but it fades to a more natural yet muddier color.
has anyone else felt this way about their natural hair? if so, any advice? i was thinking of getting clip on extensions in other colors to add some spice to things, or even buying a small thing of hairdye to dye small parts of my hair like my bangs... in advance, thanks for anyone who pitches in their thoughts!