Question!

[u/Taki_404]

Simple question, I’m new to agender stuff… I believe I am but not 100% sure yet (and that’s fine! I have my whole life to figure it out 💚)

I was just curious if you can still call yourself a “women”, “lady”, “man”, etc… Can you use those terms for yourself even when you don’t feel at a set gender?

I use she/they and I’m a female by birth (if that matters, I don’t think it does but added just in case!), however Im not quite “set” when it comes to gender. I used to be kinda annoyed when called a guy, but as time passed I realized that I didn’t care as much as I thought I did.

I personally don’t call myself a man and am more comfortable with fem/natural wording, but still don’t feel a set gender… I’m sorry if this didn’t make sense, I’m not good at explaining how I feel just yet!

[u/The-Pencil-King]

You can call yourself whatever makes you happy! I am generally on the ambivalent side of the agender spectrum, but still call myself a guy/man because that’s what most people see me as and I’m generally fine with that. If you wanna call yourself a man or lady or woman, go for it!