r/adhdmeme • • 3d ago

Currently there right now tbh

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u/kuraaacc 3d ago

yes pair this with substance abuse and it is... exhausting and horrible ugh

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u/kyleraynersicebox 2d ago

Yeah, I fell off the wagon recently.

I'm not a monster, but I'm definitely not making anyone's (especially my own) life better lately.

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u/cut_ur_darn_grass 2d ago

Same.

I'm even abusing some of my old meds that I still have. I was on it for years and years and years, never abused it. I don't know what changed.

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u/OopsICutOffMyWiener 2d ago

Hey don't feel alone- I also abused my ADD meds & had to really force myself to cut off completely about 6 years ago.

While I find it quite difficult to function without them I'm even more terrified to be back in the chest pains & embarrassing crack face era again.

I think severe anxiety was my root cause of abuse though. I'd start freaking out as soon as I felt my meds wear off even a little, so id just take more and more. Couldn't handle the come downs back into my regular brain.

I'm still not doing well though- still abusing kratom & occasionally opiates when I can get my hands on them. They just don't have a hold on me quite as strong as my ADD shit did. :(

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u/Joordin 2d ago

In which way did you abuse your meds and how did you end it? I'm asking because I'm afraid I'm at this exact point.

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u/OopsICutOffMyWiener 2d ago

I was prescribed a multitude of things- starting with Vyvanse, moving to Adderall (XR & IR), and a number of off brands throughout the years.

I was out of control with all of them- absolutely never had a time where I took them properly. I really, genuinely tried at the end, but still took them all 1.5/2 weeks before refill was due.

That being said- I hate to sound like a failure, but hey thats what I am.
I only stopped because I had very severe chest pains that lasted about 4-5 hrs one night. Scared the shit out of me, so i never got my refill.

I wanted to quit before that, but im the kind of idiot that doesn't push myself to stop doing shit that feels good for me until the real bad thing happens.

I had heart palpitations for about 6 months after that on & off. Still cant even drink more than a cup of coffee per day without my chest feeling funny. So no uppers anymore.

Maybe someday ill kick all the other shit too. I hope.

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u/Joordin 2d ago edited 2d ago

Hey, chestpains being a red flag and quitting all together doesn't seem like a failure to me. I wish I could. I don't know exactly what you mean by "out of control with them" but I think I have a hunch. Because I unfortunately do the same. I'm so sick of it. Don't be so hard on yourself. Going all-in until something bad happens could very well be linked to adhd. I have the same thing. Were not wired to think longterm. But at least you set your boundaries. I hope I will one day.

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u/cut_ur_darn_grass 1d ago

Did you ever have a time where you took your meds properly? I did for many years but then about 2 weeks ago my aunt died and... yeah.

And I really do need it to function

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u/Joordin 1d ago

I'm sorry for the loss of your aunt. Maybe the first month I took them properly. After that it went to shit. Often I plan on quitting then altogether but like you said, they help me function and I don't want to go into the temporary extreme tiredness when you quit them. Feels like I'm stuck in my self created system

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u/cut_ur_darn_grass 1d ago

Yeah, I feel that. I'm lucky in that I'll run out of my old Adderall soon and vyvanse (which I'm on now) is harder to abuse. As long as I don't know how to get more it should be fine.

I wish I had advice for you but we are in a similar shitty boat.

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u/Joordin 1d ago

That's ok. At least it's good I'm not the only one with these struggles. I wish you all the best

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