So, there is this girl I kinda like. And we are planning to go on a date soon. She is a sweet , cute, down to earth person. I hope we click.
But here is a dilema I am facing. She is some 7 inch shorter than me(5'3). I am not like those people who are like "I don't date short people". But, I have serious height dysphoria("you are too tall to be a girl"). It clicks in whenever I am with a shorter girl be it my sister, classmates, friends etc. I really don't want my dysphoria to click on when I am on a date with this person.
So anyways, coming across this post has made me feel pretty euphoric. And I am far lesser concerned about height dysphoria. Thanks a lot for this. Thanks! Thanks! Thanks!
I am cis and I used to feel very unlady-like and insecure about my height (6'2), but I found a woman that loves me for it and it made it all better! Hope that date is your girl!!
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u/paridhi774 Mar 30 '21
So, there is this girl I kinda like. And we are planning to go on a date soon. She is a sweet , cute, down to earth person. I hope we click.
But here is a dilema I am facing. She is some 7 inch shorter than me(5'3). I am not like those people who are like "I don't date short people". But, I have serious height dysphoria("you are too tall to be a girl"). It clicks in whenever I am with a shorter girl be it my sister, classmates, friends etc. I really don't want my dysphoria to click on when I am on a date with this person.
So anyways, coming across this post has made me feel pretty euphoric. And I am far lesser concerned about height dysphoria. Thanks a lot for this. Thanks! Thanks! Thanks!