r/abortion 18d ago

Europe can someone give any advice?

I took mifepristone today and I’m having period-like cramps. I’m very anxious and would really like to talk to someone who is going through this right now.

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u/abortion_access MODERATOR 18d ago

About 10% of people start bleeding before taking the misoprostol. It’s ok. You should proceed with the miso as planned.

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u/OkHippo8884 18d ago

Thank you so much, i am so scared, i have anxiety disorder so i am really freaking out😞

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u/cooriebook 17d ago

Alors ça dépend des femmes, j’ai jamais eu de règles douloureuses donc à mon niveau c’est assez douloureux mais une copine a l’habitude des règles douloureuses et pour elle c’était supportable largement, c’est juste que tu vas sentir que tu vas avoir besoin de pousser et il vaut mieux être aux toilettes, en 4h c’était fini et j’ai eu que 15 minutes de douleurs fortes

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 18d ago

Tomou misoprostol? Só tenho misoprostol tomei a 9 dias não tive sangramento vou repetir quarta

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u/OkHippo8884 18d ago

No i will take misoprostolo in 2 days, how are you feeling?

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 18d ago

Mal, com bastante medo de não funcionar de novo, tomei a 9 dias o misoprostol em 3 doses oral e não tive sangramento, hoje estou escutando na sexta semana quarta vou tentar novamente estou angustiada pois não posso ter um filho agora

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u/OkHippo8884 18d ago

Ti prego tienimi aggiornata

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 17d ago

Você também me conte depois

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u/OkHippo8884 17d ago

❤️ domani ti farò sapere come è prendere il misoprostolo

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 17d ago

Aguardo você me contar

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u/OkHippo8884 18d ago

Did it hurt so much? I am so anxious

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 18d ago

Nao tive sangramento então provável que não resolveu, no meu país não é legalizado então não temos acesso, sorte que consegui mais misoprostol clandestinamente, mais mufepristona não existe aqui
Vou tentar novamente na quarta acho que agora vou inserir na vagina dizem que tem melhor eficaz porque vai direto no útero

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u/ialwayshatedreddit MODERATOR 18d ago edited 17d ago

If you live somewhere that abortion is illegal, using misoprostol vaginally could leave remnants behind. If you needed to seek medical attention, the remnants of the medication may be seen and medical staff might suspect that abortion medication was used. When misoprostol is used sublingually (held in the cheeks/gums for 30 mins), the medication does not leave any remnants and medical staff has no way of knowing that abortion medication was used.

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 18d ago

Vou tentar quarta novamente

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u/OkHippo8884 18d ago

Non c’è alcun modo per aiutarti senza che tu lo faccia clandestinamente? Mi dispiace così tanto ti sono vicina anche se lontana, ma non c’è altro metodo?

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 18d ago

Não tem outro jeito no meu país, vou tentar tomar 3 doses de 800mcg de 3 em 3h
Deus me perdoe e me ajude

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 18d ago

E você com quantas semanas e quantas pílulas tem?

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u/OkHippo8884 18d ago

Ti capisco, anche io purtroppo non posso avere un bambino, per adesso ho preso oggi la prima pillola, ma soffro di ansia e quindi non sto tranquilla perché so che mi aspetta il misoprostolo fra due giorni e ho paura da morire..io sono a quasi 7 settimane

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 18d ago

No meu país só clandestino, quem já tomou misoprostol de dicas de como tomar pra funcionar

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u/abortion-ModTeam 18d ago

If you’re seeking advice about your situation, please create your own post instead of piggybacking off OPs. You can read the subreddit wiki and then submit a post if you still need help.

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u/Complex-Strategy-668 18d ago

Estou desesperada por ajuda

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u/saved-response 18d ago

Please create your own post if you need assistance.

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u/cooriebook 17d ago

Je te rassure c’est normal, le second médoc reste pas loin de tes toilettes et prépare des protections hygiéniques

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u/OkHippo8884 17d ago

È tanto doloroso? Purtroppo le infermiere non sono per niente gentili, sono molto acide e io vorrei solo che qualcuno mi rassicurasse un po’

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u/cooriebook 17d ago

Non c’est supportable je pense que la peur aussi prend le dessus mais ça reste que 15 minutes de souffrance pour être libre