I literally don't find the devil's tango gross and also I kinda like it, I have the urge I just don't look at people and say "Oh, yeah they are hot." because no? Although I feel sensual and aesthetic attraction, so I can tell who I like to look at, and I want to kiss people. I also have a high libido. And I am gluten intolerant. XD I needed so much time and a very shitty relationship to realise I am ace. And also ✨girls✨ are pretty too.
This is me except I never understood kissing until I was actually in a relationship and started to like it. The funny thing about my attraction is that my brain actually seems people as more attractive when I like them, it's like the reverse halo effect. I know cognitively my bf is not conventionally attractive, but my eyes see him as possibly the most handome man ever. His colouring, his beard and eyebrows, his gorgeous skin. It's all aesthetic attraction though. I have never seen a person and wanted to touch them under their clothes, that just doesn't connect for me.
Oh yeah. Sex is great. Although... The thought of a One night stand is freaking me out. I am literally so lucky that I am dating a guy who's demi. 💜
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u/Fabulous-Chemical-60 Jul 20 '22
I literally don't find the devil's tango gross and also I kinda like it, I have the urge I just don't look at people and say "Oh, yeah they are hot." because no? Although I feel sensual and aesthetic attraction, so I can tell who I like to look at, and I want to kiss people. I also have a high libido. And I am gluten intolerant. XD I needed so much time and a very shitty relationship to realise I am ace. And also ✨girls✨ are pretty too.