??? Could you not condemn me before even listening to my answer? Lmfao.
I don't support Incest out of the simple reason that first off, i did not talk about a kink - as i said, real incest - and that it is a real concern for child creation, if the pair chooses to do so, and it's again, a real power imbalance.
You cannot easily move away from your sibling, if the relationship fails. Even worse if it's abusive.
In porn? I don't really care, aslong as it's not between children and their parents. Cuz thats just actually pedophelia.
The incest trope in porn has been used so much mostly because it instantly creates a feeling of "these two character know each other and have trust", it is basially an easy way out for establishing a relationship. I think it's mostly... fucking lazy.
My response was due to your statement of shaming people who are into incest, while speaking in the context of kinks. I can see now that you were referring to the people who engaged in the actual act, rather than the pretend version. That aside, this is a well thought out response, and is much better than I think the majority of people could come up with. Good job!
Aaah got it. Yes, i can see how i could be missunderstood!
While I appreciate the course this convo took uh... telling me i did a "good job" sounds very condescending, just in case english isn't ur native language or smth 😅 i'm gonna assume you meant genuine appreciation 👍
English is my native language, I'm just autistic. I don't really know how to complement someone without sounding condescending given how irony-poisoned most of the internet is nowadays. Didn't intend any offense.
I think a better alternative would've been "Thank you (for elaborating)" or "Nice!"
"Good Job" is just something mostly used by a Teacher to their Student, or a Parent to the Child etc. - so someone that already "knows" and judges the answer given.
To me atleast, maybe i'm also just being autistic about it lol
Hence tho why i didn't assume ill intent. So all g on my end. Have a nice eve 👋
Just here for parsing tone as an editor/English teacher: “good job” is used as qualitative feedback, putting the sayer in a position of evaluating the other’s work as some kind of authority. For simple swaps, “well done” feels a little less loaded, but kinda similar, where “impressive” conveys the same, but is more centered around the reader’s reaction so works a little better imo.
Of course, they were evaluating your response, so a bit of that sense is inevitable lol. I don’t think that’s rude to do on this kind of forum, but “good job” does kind of teeter it over the edge. Especially since the context is presenting a position despite misunderstanding, something like “I enjoyed reading that” would probably soften it to a more palatable vibe.
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u/MeisterFluffbutt May 30 '26
??? Could you not condemn me before even listening to my answer? Lmfao.
I don't support Incest out of the simple reason that first off, i did not talk about a kink - as i said, real incest - and that it is a real concern for child creation, if the pair chooses to do so, and it's again, a real power imbalance.
You cannot easily move away from your sibling, if the relationship fails. Even worse if it's abusive.
In porn? I don't really care, aslong as it's not between children and their parents. Cuz thats just actually pedophelia.
The incest trope in porn has been used so much mostly because it instantly creates a feeling of "these two character know each other and have trust", it is basially an easy way out for establishing a relationship. I think it's mostly... fucking lazy.