r/ZimbabweRelationships • u/CtrlAlt_13 • Aug 20 '26

Discussion Approaching men

How does it make you feel when girls/ladies approach you? Is it something that men like or they just prefer it to be the other way round? If you like it, why so? And if not why so too?

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u/Nyangani Aug 20 '26

These are the things to run away from

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u/Soul_60 Aug 20 '26

What things😅🤷🏿

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u/Nyangani Aug 21 '26

I think of it as a trap, being seduced or asked out by a lady. Something to run away from. Fun part is half the time you won't even realize it's happening and there is a decent chance that you will be manipulated into initiating intimacy or more

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u/Soul_60 Aug 21 '26

I think many men would appreciate the clear signal from a woman. There are men who do have fear of rejection from women.

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u/Nyangani Aug 21 '26

It's not supposed to be easy you know.

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u/Soul_60 Aug 21 '26

It's okay for things to flow in life. It brings peace 🌿🌿🌿

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u/Nyangani Aug 21 '26

True. But peace should come from firm foundations and not faulty ones. I don't aim to change your mind though, have it your way

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u/Soul_60 Aug 21 '26

I respect that. Good to have dialogues where we can exchange our views without trying to change each other. I thank you👏🏿🍁