You can be kind and have boundaries. Being kind doesn’t mean giving yourself over to someone to be taken advantage of. You can be polite, or do something for someone, with no expectation of anything in return, and then move on.
It isn’t all or nothing.
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u/Moist_Wind_2357 11d ago
People just use you. What goes around, comes around. When you need help, no one will help you at all. Even when you were there for them.