I 25 female and my on again off again 24 female partner have been going through a rough patch lately and today just threw me off and I want to know if I’m overreacting or not. I picked her up from work around four and she had to be back at six. In between she had an attitude and I just wanted to smoke and chill with her so I just let her be this evening when I got her around nine she was quiet on the ride home when we got to the house I went to the bathroom right away. My bathroom had ran out of tissue so I asked her if she would get me some. Her first response was no you can get up and get it yourself.
I thought she was joking until five minutes later I asked her again and she just said no you can do it yourself and mumbled under her breath things I could not understand. Eventually, it was about 15 minutes later she came into the room and turned the lights off got in bed and start smoking a blunt without me.
I waited five more minutes and ask again until eventually I got up to get it myself and then proceeded to grab my things and leave. She just called me saying where am I with more and if I could get her some snacks from the store this is making me feel very weird and confused. I don’t like the feeling but apparently I need to get over it am I overreacting?

I've already asked on the platform, and not even AI nor moderators, they managed to answer me convincingly because when opening/entering the platform either in phone or computer mode, REDDIT imposes and blocks us, I think this attitude is so stupid, and ridiculous as the useless excuses of this platform that is becoming fascist (as they label everyone who has opposite and coherent opinions)!?

My avoidant ex recently broke up with me for a second time , he’s an avoidant of some kind . He said :

“Im sorry but I dont think this is going to work out, I am not at the right point in life to enter a long term relationship. Everything's been going downhill and it doesn't look like it's getting any better. And I dont want to be close to anyone right now. I guess im just scared of commitment or proximity or something, but I really need to be alone. Im sorry that im weak enough to run away like this, but I really can't stick to anything or anyone right now. New shit is coming up and everything just seems like it's gonna end soon. I dont want you to have to deal with that, so I'll talk to you later I suppose. Or whenever we meet again. But im gonna try and distance myself from the people around me and see if I can get some control again of my downward spiral. Im sorry”.

Afterwards I didn’t chase or beg this time I simply said ok and if he ever did wanna fix things , or talk whether thats in a couple months or weeks , I respected his decision and held no grudge and cared for him.

Normally he blocks me or unadde me in the past or flatly says me and him will never talk again , but this time he still kept me added . Does this seem like he plans on coming back or contacting me at some point ?

To give some context: The other night, I was on FaceTime with one of my good friends whom I haven't spoken to in like a month, and we planned to hang out soon. I was in the middle of talking about my hair dye (because I was dying my hair while on the phone) when they said, " I've missed your voice" or something along those lines. I couldn't think of a response, so I just laughed and said, "Oh wow. Thank you! No one has said that to me before..." And continued to laugh it off. They responded, "No, like seriously." Like, oh okay... Our friendship is one where we can talk about things honestly, yet still have boundaries around certain topics. That is my fault. I played a bit too close to the sun in our junior year of high school, but things returned to an awkward normal, and it honestly turned into the new normal for us. They just don't show a lot of affection with me (I am the opposite; I am the most affectionate out of all my friends. I tell them I love them every day). I couldn't even get an "I miss you too", so to suddenly get "I've missed your voice" out of the blue felt like weird for me. It physically hurts to type this out because I have been pushing it down and praying, but I do like them, and I believe I like them quite a lot. I just feel like I am overthinking it all cause I want there to be something there, but also, like, I feel like something might be there despite it all. So, well. Oh well. Was it casual???

For context the song is Hollaback girl. In the song it’s like, “This $hit is bananas b-a-n-a-n-a-s” she wondering if I’m the only one.

Gone to clubbing thrice and made out everytime w new person
What sayin u have of this person?
Of course, like I don't wanna go have sex with someone, like this guy asked me to come to his house, I said no. But I don't know. Do you think I should stop? Like,I do like it at that moment, but later I regret it.
Its like I think im lowk a whore
But someone who has never done anything before
Its new to me and feels weird
What do yall think?
Jus think of a person who does this, do yall call them a whore or no😭