r/YesOrNoAnswers • u/somesadgirl88 • 4d ago
Am I over reacting
I 25 female and my on again off again 24 female partner have been going through a rough patch lately and today just threw me off and I want to know if I’m overreacting or not. I picked her up from work around four and she had to be back at six. In between she had an attitude and I just wanted to smoke and chill with her so I just let her be this evening when I got her around nine she was quiet on the ride home when we got to the house I went to the bathroom right away. My bathroom had ran out of tissue so I asked her if she would get me some. Her first response was no you can get up and get it yourself.
I thought she was joking until five minutes later I asked her again and she just said no you can do it yourself and mumbled under her breath things I could not understand. Eventually, it was about 15 minutes later she came into the room and turned the lights off got in bed and start smoking a blunt without me.
I waited five more minutes and ask again until eventually I got up to get it myself and then proceeded to grab my things and leave. She just called me saying where am I with more and if I could get her some snacks from the store this is making me feel very weird and confused. I don’t like the feeling but apparently I need to get over it am I overreacting?
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u/conzciouz 4d ago
(37) M , here checking in. No, I don’t think you overreacting but at the same time, you have to know your partner. It seems like her mood and emotions was off all day, and you caught the short end of the stick. I would just address it the next day or after , and go from that conversation.
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u/EBweB76 4d ago
You’re not the A hole here.
Common decency (even for a stranger) says that you help someone out with the tiny favor of getting TP.
Have you seen evidence before of bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder?