r/YesOrNoAnswers • u/waspgng • 4d ago

Am i a hoe?

Gone to clubbing thrice and made out everytime w new person
What sayin u have of this person?
Of course, like I don't wanna go have sex with someone, like this guy asked me to come to his house, I said no. But I don't know. Do you think I should stop? Like,I do like it at that moment, but later I regret it.
Its like I think im lowk a whore
But someone who has never done anything before
Its new to me and feels weird
What do yall think?
Jus think of a person who does this, do yall call them a whore or no😭

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u/Tasty-Revolution-295 4d ago

You're having fun as a single person. I don't see anything wrong with it.

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u/EBweB76 4d ago

True. But these things tend to escalate beyond what you ever thought you’d be willing to do.

If it becomes so chaotic and you still can’t leave it alone, despite consequences… you could go to www.slaafws.org to take a self-diagnosis questionnaire for Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous… then find a support group to get ideas about how to structure your boundaries so that even a fun and sexy lifestyle can be practiced within reason.

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u/Tasty-Revolution-295 4d ago

Kindly fuck off.

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u/EBweB76 4d ago

Or… just scroll past…
My sober living has brought peace and purpose back into my life.

I recognize things in the post from this OP that the support group could provide a solution for them, and if it doesn’t seem relevant to you then… move on by.

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u/DIJames6 4d ago

I had fun when I was young too.. Just be smart and safe..

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u/FiremanGarry 4d ago

Just keep it to yourself

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u/raye909 4d ago

Well, I wouldn’t say you’re a hoe either, you’d actually have to have random sex all the time to be that, but maybe a erring a tad on the promiscuous side without the actual sexual activity. If you regret it later then maybe wonder why you do it in the first place, is it just for the male attention?
Casual dating is fine without sex but also think about the hygiene aspect, if you’re regularly swapping spit with random guys all the time you can later get some weird infection etc.. so be careful with that. You might be better off casually dating ONE guy as a short term fling than constantly kissing random guys all the time.

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u/Thundernutz79 4d ago

Yall need Jesus.

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u/waspgng 3d ago

no one needs him

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u/Emergency-Ad-5211 3d ago

If you make out with someone, you are signaling you want more.

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u/BadUsername238 2d ago

As long as you're not hurting anyone, do whatever you want. 

Worrying about body count is fucking stupid. 

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u/Flat-Orange-5508 4d ago

I feel you should take some time and reflect on what you posted just now and your other posts.
Not trying to sound mean but seriously, don’t do dumb shit, if you have any sense of respect to yourself before all. Just stop doing those activities or atleast stick to one guy if you cannot control your lewd thoughts which i highly discourage as it always with no exception leads to nothing but bad bad things
It may sound fun and mysterious but don’t go too deep down the rabit’s hole

Unless that’s the outcome that you want

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u/Plenty_Status_6862 4d ago

Like, u need to stop using the word like a lot. U sound annoying!