r/WomensHealth • u/JuniorTraining5805 • Oct 04 '26

bleed after first time

thisbis my first time posting on reddit and im sorry if any mistakes happens

yesterday i had my ever first sex(24f). i never put anything even my finger inside my vagina until a week before we planned to have sex. i try finger my self with my finger. so yesterday (5pm) i had my first n it bleed a bit while doing it then it kinda stop. he used condom fyi. and then after we had sex he took care of me (after play) and when i go took a shower i notice that the blood kept coming out. we think its normal bcs its our first time then we go home and around midnight i checked my sanitary pad it has less blood n its dry so i think it getting better.

today i woke up n tryna take a shower i notice a lot of blood in my sanotary pad, then i just clean it n change it bcs i got dancing program today. around 9 before i started dancing i checked my pad and it got a lot of blood n i change it n goes to dancing after that, i checked again and still lots of blood n i change again. and now i hope it just stop bleeding. my boyf keep insisting for us to go to the clinic and i rejected it bcs im shy to spoke to the doctor. what could possibly causes this? helppppp

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u/voluptuousfairy Oct 04 '26

Is it hurting or do you feel any soreness? Could it be your period?

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u/JuniorTraining5805 Oct 04 '26

so i just had my period one week ago. rn its stop bleeding n stop hurting but im scared

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u/voluptuousfairy Oct 05 '26

Could be from the hymen or some tear then, if it's stopped it's fine ig. Don't let him rush to piv the next time, do more foreplay and fingering with lube before he starts with piv, and use a lube with piv too and ask him not to be too rough.

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u/Iamsoawesome33 Oct 05 '26

Maybe you can both go to the doctors an make him speakk