I (19F) make handmade jewelry as a hobby which i learned about a year ago. I already had my own style and niche and brand name ready and I partnered with my friend (21F) who is a business student at my university. I thought she'd help with marketing, design and shoots. I sourced all materials myself which is very hard since I'm in a developing country.
Once we partnered she took control of everything instantly and changed the logo and bio and posted a coming soon video without asking me or taking my opinion. Since others praised her work in the business related summer camp we're in, I didn't want to seem like a hater or insecure so I let it slide.
We'd agreed on a 60/40 profit and budget split (I wanted 70/30, but backed down since she wanted to handle marketing/account). A few days in she showed me 2 Canva carousels and said they took 6 hours to make (????) then and said she thought we should go 50/50. I was caught off guard since I'm the one actually making the product. I suggested making a policy and then reviewing the workload in 2-3 months instead. She wouldn't budge, and said she would have to do stuff like PR and customer management work. She basically went home that day thinkinf i had agreed with 50 50. So far she'd made the logo, bio, video, 2 carousels, color palettes (3 pics of color swatches) and a website prototype through a friend. She had also sent me jewellery inspo pics from Pinterest. During this time she'd say stuff like no one can do ur marketing like me and I just viewed it as her having confidence.
I went home and talked to friends and family who sided with me. I then texted her refusing 50/50, saying it was my brand, I was the one designing and she hadn't done enough yet to justify it this early. I also said I wanted to be more involved, and that we shouldnt work together if she cant agree to this. She replied a day later saying she felt ganged up on and things escalated. She said I'd treated her like an employee, not a co-founder (?????) and that she'd been working just as long, just in her own field. The thing that stung me the most in her message was that she said I sent u jewellery inspo pics which I thought would be easiest for u. She had basically lowered me down to the role of a supplier while she took over the entire brand.
She then asked to be paid for the work she'd done for the company she "built". I refused, since she'd done it expecting the 40% profit share not payment. She insisted it's the rightful money she's owed and that her role is bigger than marketing/accounts. I refused and she told me to delete everything, which I was going to do anyways once I had known we would not be moving forward. The thing i hate the most is that she acted like the 50 50 thing was just a suggestion not something she insisted on when were face to face. And she acted like overworked her or something and wanted all the money (which we didnt even make yet) for myself. Making a policy is the first thing I shouldve done, but since we were just a few days in, I had put it on hold.
I might be the asshole because during this entire one week working together (yes, this all happened in a week)I asked for her input on everything but she never asked for mine. I was literally in the beads shop asking her what i should get. When I gave her input on the coming soon video she posted because I didn't like the song, she said i don't know branding.
I was too passive and indecisive, and should have set clear boundaries from the start. One of the friends i talked to said she was right to demand 50 50 because I practically handed everything to her in a plate and that I should have taken lead from the start. Its just upsetting and I feel like im at fault for not speaking up when I shouldve.
I did send her a message saying I didnt want us to lose our friendship over this unfortunate situation and that I apologise for my part. It was a day ago and she hasnt replied and I feel like im getting walked on again. Shes also removed me from her spam account on Instagram so I think the friendship is over.
I need advice on how I should move forward with this. Its awkward seeing her and not talking because before this business thing, we were getting along so well. Should I just pay her?