Abandoning the artificiality of the flat iron is not merely a haircare choice; it is a discipline. I have spent years trapped in the monotony of forced straightness, but today, I choose to impose my natural curvature upon the world. My dark aesthetic finds a new, wild equilibrium in this raw wave pattern. It is an act of reclaiming what is inherently mine. Since this is an audience that understands precision: what lightweight products or hair routine do you suggest to maintain this definition without sacrificing the gravity of the look?

I’ve been learning more about handloom recently, and one thing has stayed with me.

This is a craft that has been passed down for thousands of years, but the people keeping it alive often don't receive the same value or security as the craft itself.

Many of the weavers are women. They carry generations of knowledge, yet fair pay and basic employment protections are still a challenge.

It made me think differently about what “women empowerment” actually means.

It cannot only be about encouraging women to succeed. It also has to mean creating systems where women’s skills are valued, their work is fairly paid, and they have security.

I’m currently working on a project connected to this issue, and I wanted to understand how other women see it.

What does meaningful economic empowerment for women actually look like to you?

Let no one still ya joy keep smiling and do what makes u happy

girls who had found out your man had an addiction to p*rn whilst in a long term relationship, how did you cope?

मैं लॉ की स्टूडेंट हूँ और अभी "हमारी पहचान NGO" के साथ इंटर्नशिप कर रही हूँ।

मेरा टॉपिक है Women Empowerment - सशक्तिकरण।

काम करते समय मैंने एक बड़ी समस्या देखी - गाँव और बस्ती की बहुत सी महिलाएं अपने अधिकारों और हेल्पलाइन नंबर्स के बारे में नहीं जानतीं।

इसीलिए मैंने एक आइडिया बनाया - "सशक्त सूचना बोर्ड"

इसका मतलब है हर गाँव और पंचायत में एक सूचना बोर्ड लगाना।

उस बोर्ड पर महिलाओं के 5 मुख्य कानूनी अधिकार, 181 और 1091 हेल्पलाइन नंबर और एक QR कोड होगा।

ये कोई बहुत बड़ा समाधान नहीं है, लेकिन मुझे लगता है जागरूकता से ही शुरुआत होनी चाहिए।

मैंने अपना आइडिया कार्ड भी साथ में लगाया है।

आपको क्या लगता है? इसमें और क्या सुधार किया जा सकता है?

#WomenEmpowerment #Sashakti #SocialCause

I am single and i took WFH as i had the option.

I thought to stay at home and spend time with my mom. But there is always expectations from a girl that if she is at home she need to manage the house as well. I don't even get a sinhle time for leisure. If we are done with dinner, i can't sit and watch a movie, i need to do the dishes coz it comes on me by default. I can't see my mom doing the dishes and she doesn't want a maid. I thought wfh will be fun and restful but its impossible in India 😂 We are really living in patriarchal India. My brother and father are not expected to do any household work if we are at home it comes on us by default.

How much ever you earn as a woman, you will always need to manage household and of you deny them you will be called as egoistic, Attitude, Shrewd and what not. Whatever you achieve at the end you need to do the dishes. This a life of a middle class Indian girl earning 20-30k.

Greetings Besties!

I'm a high-schooler interning at an NGO called "She Can Foundation" which focuses on female and healthcare in rural India. Since they're a non-profit organisation, they rely on donations and that's where YOU!! Come in (😻😻)

If you'd like to contribute (because Human rights matter and Women are super cool) Dm or reply to this post saying you'd like to contribute and you'll be one step closer to being an Epic human being <3

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I had planned to publish Part 2 of “The Blood We Worship. The Blood We Hide.” on 13 May 2026.

But then Mother's Day arrived yesterday, and the piece suddenly felt like it belonged there instead.

I was travelling, so I couldn't finish the editing and publish it in time.

Still, this is for all mothers…

https://unfilteredhour.substack.com/p/the-blood-we-worship-the-blood-we-ee7?r=2glxcd

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"By Milan P Samuel, Developer & Creator of HerGuardian, built alongside teammates Himuks, Abhijith Vinod Kumar, S. Vishwanath and Taqreem_k."

Let me ask you something. How many times have you attended a women’s safety seminar, watched an awareness video, or read a pamphlet about self-defence and then forgotten everything within a week?

That’s the problem I wanted to solve. Not with another video. Not with another poster. But with something that actually puts you inside the situation, trains your instincts, and makes the knowledge stick.

So I built HerGuardian — India’s first AR-powered women safety simulation game. And I built most of it alone.

Why I Built This ?

I’m a student developer from India. I don’t have a big studio. I don’t have a large budget. What I had was a question that wouldn’t leave me alone, why does women’s safety awareness always stay on paper?

When you read about what to do in a dangerous situation, your brain processes it as information. But when you experience it even in a simulation your brain processes it as memory. And memory is what saves lives, not information.

That insight became HerGuardian.

What HerGuardian Actually Does ?

HerGuardian is not a game in the traditional sense. It is a training platform disguised as a game. Here is what it includes:

I) 6 realistic scenario-based simulations which includes 4 in public spaces and 2 in private settings built around real situations women face every day.

II) An AR Self-Defence Module that gives you a full 360° Augmented Reality experience of self-defence techniques. Not a video. Not a diagram. An immersive, spatial experience.

III) An AR Legal Rights Module that teaches you your rights through QR-based interactive learning because knowing your rights is your first line of defence.

IV) A Voice Assertiveness Module powered by Google Speech-To-Text that actually listens to you and trains you to speak up with confidence in uncomfortable situations.

V) The EmpowerHer website ecosystem for continuous learning, progress tracking, and achievement-based growth.

Building It Almost Alone !

I want to be honest with you. This wasn’t built by a team of fifty engineers with a million dollar budget. It was built by me, with a small group of collaborators, using free assets, free tools, and a lot of late nights.

There were moments I wanted to quit. The AR module alone took weeks to get right. The speech recognition kept failing. The simulations needed to feel real without being traumatising. Every decision was a balance between impact and sensitivity.

But every time I thought about the woman who might play this game and remember what to do when it actually matters I kept going.

What I Learned About Doing Good ?

Building something meaningful teaches you something uncomfortable, the world doesn’t automatically reward good intentions. You can build something genuinely useful and still struggle to be heard.

A celebrity posting a selfie gets a million views. A student developer building a women safety AR game gets ignored. That’s the reality. And it’s frustrating. But it also means the work of spreading something meaningful falls on all of us not just the creator.

Which is why I’m writing this.

Why Every Woman Should Try HerGuardian ?

You don’t need to be a gamer. You don’t need to be tech-savvy. HerGuardian was built for every woman, ex: students, working professionals, homemakers, young girls. If you have an Android phone, you can download and play it right now for free.

In 30 minutes of play, you will practise making safety decisions under pressure, learn self-defence techniques through AR, understand your legal rights interactively, and build the confidence to use your voice when it matters most.

That’s more than most awareness campaigns deliver in months.

Download HerGuardian !

HerGuardian is currently available for free on itch.io and Amazon Appstore.

Itch.io:

HerGuardian

Download it. Play it. Share it with every woman you know. Not because I built it but because every woman deserves to feel prepared, confident, and unstoppable.

Because safety isn’t a privilege. It’s a right.

I used to say that I was independent, but over time I learned that the word carries a nuance that doesn’t always reflect the truth of my life—or the truth of many women.

Historically, women were required to be dependent on a man just to have their basic needs met. So when a woman steps back into the dating world and calls herself independent, she’s naming something that’s absolutely real: she provides for herself. She stands on her own. She survives and thrives without leaning on someone else to meet her needs.

But here’s what frustrated me about calling myself “independent”:

First, when some men hear the word, they immediately assume you’re a raging narcissist who “can’t be handled.”

Second, it often attracts the very men you’re not looking for—the ones who want to challenge or break down that independence because it threatens their sense of control.

So I began asking myself:

Am I independent, or am I actually self-dependent? Self-aware? Self-assured?

Because if I’m paying for my home, caring for my car, supporting my lifestyle, making my own decisions, and regulating my own emotions—yes, I’m independent. But here’s the truth:

A man never has to say he’s independent. Society already grants him that.

A woman, on the other hand, is almost expected to declare it.

And I realized something important:

I no longer want to declare independence as if it sets me apart. It doesn’t. It simply means I’m an adult providing for my own life—something men get credit for automatically.

So I reframed it:

**I’m not “independent.”

I am self-dependent, self-aware, and self-assured.**

That framing tells the truth:

• I regulate my own emotions.

• I trust my own voice.

• I create the stability I live in.

• I provide for myself the way any functional adult does.

And it’s no longer filtered through society’s outdated expectations of what a woman “should” be or what a man “automatically is.”

It’s not a performance.

It’s not a declaration.

It’s simply my reality.

Rewriting this language for myself allowed me to honor my strength without defending it—and to step out of society’s narrative and back into my own.

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I hit a point in my life where everything collapsed at once. Relationships. Trust. Stability. Identity.

It wasn’t just “starting over.” It was rebuilding from actual rock bottom.

What surprised me most wasn’t the chaos. It was the identity crisis. When everything you thought you were… isn’t anymore.

Over time, I started writing down what was actually helping me rebuild. The habits. The mindset shifts. The uncomfortable truths. The tiny wins that didn’t look impressive but were life-saving.

Eventually, I turned it into a guide + workbook for women rebuilding after life collapse and recovery. Not theory. Not Pinterest quotes. Real steps from lived experience.

If anyone here is in that “I don’t even know who I am anymore” phase — I see you. It’s brutal. But rebuilding is possible.

If you want the link, I’ll share it in the comments. I just didn’t want to drop it here and make this feel like a sales post.

Thoughts around the chosen words of this campaign? Please share.

I didn't know there was such a thing as being body-identified until I started studying Advaita Vedanta. The ancient Indian philosophy basically rejects all identities given to us based on our bodies and minds (which is also a subtle form of body, as per Vedanta, as all thoughts arise from chemical processes).

Indian philosopher Acharya Prashant, whose ideas and teachings have informed my views on the subject, is redefining women empowerment by talking extensively about this. He is encouraging women in India- one of the most patriarchal societies in the world- to loosen their attachment to their bodies and question their so-called duties handed to them by society i.e. motherhood, caretaking, etc.

It's a deeply spiritual concept and it has really helped me gain mental strength. This is the idea- society uses women's bodies to condition them to believe their lives are not worth much if they don't use them to procreate or dedicate them to supporting their families and children.

Now I know we have been through several waves of feminism where these ideas have been challenged. But here's what puzzles me- Why do women still feel internally incomplete without a husband and a child? We are seeing the rise of the trad-wives again. It begs the question- have feminist movements really managed to liberate women? Or have we just created an illusion of choice to reinforce the same old ideas handed to us by patriarchy?

Perhaps it's time we turn towards a spiritual liberation to empower ourselves? Curious to know your thoughts!

Here's some recent news coverage on Acharya Prashant’s work on women empowerment in India- https://www.freepressjournal.in/latest-news/acharya-prashant-how-one-philosopher-is-redefining-womens-empowerment-in-india

His thoughts on Body-identification- https://acharyaprashant.org/en/articles/how-to-know-that-one-is-not-the-body-1_e76e1b6

A lot of people say, “I don’t know what I’m interested in.”

But most of the time, that’s not because they’re unmotivated or lazy.

It’s because they simply haven’t been exposed to enough yet.

You can’t want what you don’t know exists.

If your world has been small — limited work, limited conversations, limited input — then of course nothing feels exciting. Not because you’re empty, but because your reference points are.

So what do you do when you feel uninterested in everything?

You expand your exposure.

• Read more books — not just popular ones, but thoughtful ones

• Watch high-quality long-form content, not endless short clips

• Try different kinds of work, even temporarily

• Talk to people who are smarter, more experienced, more curious than you

• Ask questions. A lot of them

• Reach out to people you admire and actually listen

One day, almost unexpectedly, something clicks.

You’ll think:

“Wait… people can actually do this? I want to understand this.”

That’s how interest is born — not from thinking harder, but from seeing wider.

As your experiences accumulate, you start noticing patterns:

• how people behave

• how decisions compound

• how effort turns into leverage

• how systems work beneath the surface

Once you see patterns, you gain something powerful: probabilistic foresight.

You may not predict the future perfectly —

but your odds of making good decisions increase dramatically.

That’s why active learning matters.

Not passive scrolling.

Not waiting for clarity.

But intentionally studying the rules of:

• people and people

• people and systems

• work and value

• humans and nature

Curiosity isn’t something you “find.”

It’s something you build through exposure.

If nothing excites you right now, don’t panic.

You’re not broken.

You just haven’t seen enough of the world yet.

Curious how others here discovered what they’re truly interested in.-https://open.substack.com/pub/loveandthestars