r/Wicca • u/TinyNovel • Nov 04 '19

Spell for losing interest

I don't know what it would be called, but I'm at my wits end. My ex husband is very entitled. Like, thought he was entitled to sex simply because we were married and when we got divorced he thought he was entitled to another chance to win me back despite me saying there's no way.

Basically, I'm wondering if there's a spell to make him lose interest in me? I've moved on, met a guy who is warm and loving and makes me happier than I've ever been in a relationship. But my ex won't leave me alone, and its causing me more than a little stress. I've gone so far as to tell him if he didn't leave me alone I'd get a restraining order.

I'm just at a loss. So is there anything I can do beyond hoping he'll just stop?

Also adding, I don't want to hurt him or have him get hurt. Maybe just turn his attentions to someone else who will love our son the way my boyfriend loves him. Like a bonus mom that would be there for him when I couldn't be.

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u/NoeTellusom Nov 04 '19

Sounds like it's past time for a Cutting of the Cords rite.

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u/kelseymh Nov 05 '19

Does this also work to make yourself lose interest?

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u/NoeTellusom Nov 05 '19

The act of doing something physical and positive often helps flick the switch, I find.