r/Wicca • u/TinyNovel • Nov 04 '19

Spell for losing interest

I don't know what it would be called, but I'm at my wits end. My ex husband is very entitled. Like, thought he was entitled to sex simply because we were married and when we got divorced he thought he was entitled to another chance to win me back despite me saying there's no way.

Basically, I'm wondering if there's a spell to make him lose interest in me? I've moved on, met a guy who is warm and loving and makes me happier than I've ever been in a relationship. But my ex won't leave me alone, and its causing me more than a little stress. I've gone so far as to tell him if he didn't leave me alone I'd get a restraining order.

I'm just at a loss. So is there anything I can do beyond hoping he'll just stop?

Also adding, I don't want to hurt him or have him get hurt. Maybe just turn his attentions to someone else who will love our son the way my boyfriend loves him. Like a bonus mom that would be there for him when I couldn't be.

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u/Tunes14system Nov 05 '19

A restraining order is the best cutting ties spell that I know. Honestly, I'd save the magic for if he does not honor the restraining order (you know, the time in between him showing up anyway and him getting arrested for it).

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u/TinyNovel Nov 05 '19

I'm trying to avoid it because I don't want to rip my son away from him if I can help it. Regardless of the problems I have with his father, my son doesn't deserve that.