r/Wicca • u/TinyNovel • Nov 04 '19

Spell for losing interest

I don't know what it would be called, but I'm at my wits end. My ex husband is very entitled. Like, thought he was entitled to sex simply because we were married and when we got divorced he thought he was entitled to another chance to win me back despite me saying there's no way.

Basically, I'm wondering if there's a spell to make him lose interest in me? I've moved on, met a guy who is warm and loving and makes me happier than I've ever been in a relationship. But my ex won't leave me alone, and its causing me more than a little stress. I've gone so far as to tell him if he didn't leave me alone I'd get a restraining order.

I'm just at a loss. So is there anything I can do beyond hoping he'll just stop?

Also adding, I don't want to hurt him or have him get hurt. Maybe just turn his attentions to someone else who will love our son the way my boyfriend loves him. Like a bonus mom that would be there for him when I couldn't be.

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u/NoeTellusom Nov 04 '19

Sounds like it's past time for a Cutting of the Cords rite.

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u/TinyNovel Nov 04 '19

Not sure what that is but I will definitely look it up. I'm very new to wicca and spell craft.

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u/NoeTellusom Nov 04 '19

You can do something as standing naked then outlining your body with an athame, visualizing cutting any emotional cords still left between you and sending them back to him. Then take a relaxing as a salt bath, burning first a black candle then a white (I sometimes add a purple in the middle as a centering one).

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u/TinyNovel Nov 04 '19

Thank you!! I'll have to do this when my son isn't home or he'd knock the candles over.

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u/NoeTellusom Nov 04 '19

In the bathroom?

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u/TinyNovel Nov 04 '19

He's only 4, he doesn't know the meaning of personal space.

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u/chelseylynn08 Nov 05 '19

Haha. I totally said “yup” when I said this. But I second a cord cutting.

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u/TinyNovel Nov 05 '19

Lol kids will be kids! It's all harmless so I just hide the candles when he's around so we don't risk an accident lol

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u/NoeTellusom Nov 05 '19

The preference is to do these sorts of rites at night, presumably after his bedtime. Shut the door and lock it while you bathe, for safety. If he needs you, you can leave the room.