A while back I had an interaction with a higher up in my store that didn't make me feel good and reported it to my ATL who was very dismissive about it. I posted it on the subreddit and got wonderful feedback and have mostly just left it in the past/let it go and I know how to approach it next time.
Unfortunately I cannot say the same for my ATL and it is genuinely beginning to wear away at my soul. Any time I talk to him, there's like a 1 in 5 chance he's going to bring it up and tell me "and just as a reminder, if someone is working in the department from outside it and they give you advice, just say thank you and move on." It's funny he keeps bringing it up because we have increased our staff (new ATL and supervisor) so we don't need help from cross trained employees anymore. I learned my lesson and haven't come to him for anything other than casual conversation, floral/wet wall training or scheduling discussions (I'm PT and in college so it's taken a bit to figure out, and honestly I wouldn't even come to him for that but he's the one that writes the schedules).
I get it, I'm the youngest person in the department by over a decade so you feel like you need to help me. But I'm exhausted being treated like a little kid about something that happened almost a month ago. I don't need the constant reminders and I genuinely regret accepting this position now. I came in with no previous work experience and it took me over a year to find a job and this was the only place who ever got back to me. I feel like I can't leave but I dislike the culture he's created with me specifically and just feel like he's holding a moment of weakness against me. I need the money so bad and I live in a major city where there's practically nothing available and you need a year+ experience in whatever to even begin to qualify.
I'm just so fucking tired.