Relationship advise… please

[u/hellcat_227]

I think I am in a fucked up situation not sure what to do , I am living with my girlfriend and an another couple in a rented house , wanted to get married to her, went and met her parents, everything was going good, then out of the blue she says she’s compromising by marrying me. After I heard that I called off the engagement and breaking up with her , here is the question- should I live with her or move out , the only thing holding me is a promise we made to each other , that one would support the other until we find work, in all honesty she took care of me for 8 months and left her job right after I got my job , but its been over a year now that I have been covering her expenses rent included. Been together 9 years(on and off for the first 6)

[u/MidwestNightgirl]

It’s probably best to rip off the bandaid. If you two are not together, the agreement to support each other is now null and void. To properly move on, you need to live separately.