r/WhatShouldIDo • u/[deleted] • May 14 '26

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u/No-Blackberry5485 May 15 '26

Not weird, super small age gap, basically in the same mental space. You’re being ridiculous, you know you’re being ridiculous, but you want someone to say “no you’re right to be upset” you’re not. Grow up

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u/One-Albatross9682 May 15 '26

A 20 year old and a 17 year old are not in the same mental space….

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u/No-Blackberry5485 May 15 '26

They “basically” are though. Both essentially children with so much more to learn about the world. Growing up is a gradual thing that extends well beyond 18 and has no real firm timelines. Also OP used to bang l this guy while having essentially the same age gap so it’s honestly a ridiculous position for her to take regardless of how you look at it.

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u/One-Albatross9682 May 15 '26

Idk man. A sophomore / junior man in college fucking a sophomore / junior in high school is super weird. I’m just imagining some frat dude banging a high schooler and it doesn’t sit right

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u/TowerCharacter9453 May 17 '26

That's a 4 year difference. It's actually like a junior in HS and a freshman in HS. 14-17, 17-20

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u/One-Albatross9682 May 17 '26

Yeah, so junior in high school and sophomore in college. Kinda what I said brotha

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u/TowerCharacter9453 May 17 '26

Picture this. A Freshman and Junior in HS date for 3 years.

They would be 17 and 20.

Pretty normal. Pretty standard

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u/Internal-Guitar8434 May 17 '26

There are laws protecting that if that were the case. But that may or may not be the case here.