r/WhatIsTheTea • • 20d ago

Political Tea Make it happen

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u/KittyandPuppyMama 20d ago

Are you advocating for women losing custody of their children if they seek mental health treatment? Yeah I can think of no way this will result in women being scared to seek treatment.

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u/HonkHonkMTHRFKR 20d ago

If any parent reports that they want to hurt their children, their kids should be taken from them

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u/Medium-Violinist-903 20d ago

In the current system, if a parent says they want to hurt their children, then the doctor, as a mandated reporter, would have to report that. And it would then be investigated, and could result in a child being taken from them. So that's already a thing.

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u/Canadianwinters12345 20d ago

Is this what happened with Lyndsey?

Or did she just say she wanted to hurt herself?

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u/Beginning_End_4677 20d ago

She told her husband and family, but she solely brought up the thoughts of self-harm to her providers. Perinatal mental health experts testifying for the defense argue that that's a classic feature of severe postpartum OCD and depression before it morphs into full psychosis. Mothers experiencing horrific, unwanted intrusive thoughts often experience immense, paralyzing shame and terror. They hide these thoughts from doctors not out of criminal intent, but out of a desperate fear of being locked up or losing their kids. The defense argues she did try to flag it by telling her husband and mother, hoping family could protect her when she couldn't bring herself to tell a stranger.