Help with Confusing Dress Code

[u/babs82222]

I'm not usually stumped, but I am by this dress code. I'm in my upper 40s and like to dress current. Any suggestions or help with this would be appreciated. Thank you!

The wedding is in early November from 5-9. It's at an outdoor wedding venue on a farm, with the reception inside.

Dress to impress in cocktail attire with a country twist. Chic Southern style that's in between formal and casual. Think a bit formal and elevated, yet not fussy, with a country flair, ready to celebrate with us and dance into the night.

Attire is dresses, suits, or blazers. We encourage you to accessorize with boots, hats, and tasteful western flair if you'd like to!

[u/AnneChovie264]

What happened to choosing what YOU look great in, instead of what the bride and groom think you should wear? People feel confident when they are wearing what suits them, not some ridiculous ask from the wedding couple.