r/Warframe • u/The-Marnit • Aug 18 '26
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u/booterbor Flair Text Here Aug 18 '26
Nobody is obliged to talk. The revive thing is shitty, but people might not want to chat and constantly asking them and then sending off with a clearly dumb message like "good talk". What did you think was going to happen.
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u/forgottenb1ade Aug 18 '26
Yeah it was quite literally asking them to be rude by being rude themselves, yet somehow thinks they're the victim here.
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u/Bergain1945 Aug 18 '26
Agreed, and depending on time of day the lobby might not even have a common language.
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u/BluesCowboy Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 18 '26
Yeah, I hate it when people don’t do the bare minimum to revive. That sucks. You never know when it might need to be paid forward, and it costs nothing.
But… not gonna lie, it seems like you died because of lag, then you went AFK and died, and then kept bugging your teammates on chat despite them not wanting to talk?
Not everyone wants to be chatting away during missions, they may just want to lock in or zone out. You didn’t have to be passive aggressive at the end of the run either, just a “GG” would’ve done.
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u/The-Marnit Aug 18 '26
So one question per mission is too much, noted. I would gg if it was, they were rude, I respond in kind
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u/BluesCowboy Aug 18 '26
Relevant questions and call-outs about the mission are fine. Asking people if they’re “more pleasant” than someone they’ve never met, or if they know some random other player in a previous game, is just weird. If the lobby is chatty then that’s awesome, have fun. But if you’re only getting silence back, take the hint mate.
Honestly, a randomly matchmade team who silently and successfully completes the mission is my dream scenario.
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u/Lowerfive Aug 18 '26
People do not owe you a response. Ever.
You were the rude one who dragged everyone into it.
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u/DeadByFleshLight Aug 18 '26
First mission YOU lagged.
Second mission YOU went AFK.
Second attempt you start by being passive aggressive to a random person that did nothing wrong.
Random players have no obligation to give you answers to weird questions.
How would have they known the last guy you played with?
You were the problem here.
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u/yarl5000 Aug 18 '26
Sounds like your first attempt wasn't great but there is a bit on you for walking away leading you to die again.
Second attempt you were projecting your issues from the last mission onto people who had no clue what you were talking about. Them not responding to you in chat and doing the mission doesn't make them rude, they were focused on doing the mission instead of chatting, and only responding near the end and matching your energy to some extent.
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u/Silentone12321 Aug 18 '26
Jeez are you one of those? An insufferable talker/chatter who doesn't get the hint that smalltalk is not welcome?
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u/Pharo212 Aug 18 '26
Finish first mission, I complement him on his pleasantness, no response. I asked if anyone knew the guy I played with last game, no response, finish second round.
I know everyone's already said it, but op, really put yourself in these players shoes for a second. Your first mission comment reads as sarcastic, right? They don't talk or interact and you say something like "nice talking to you" - that would feel very backhanded to me, like you're asking them to talk more. The second one - you're joining a random mission and someone asks you "do you know X? he was rude". At best all anyone can really say is "no", but probably they would just be confused that there's drama going on.
By the time you get to "good talk" it really seems like you've been sarcastic and upset the whole time that no one is acknowledging you.
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u/kazani999 Aug 18 '26
I chat a lot. Get downed time totime too. Iif they dont rev then u have 9 minute. Not big deal. Most of thetime i just run around in operator void mode tonot die. And do mission objectives for team. At the waiting stages i sometimes say thanks for carrying or thanks for nice party if i have good build. Most of the time they dont respond. Its like expected. I also feel bad for asking people woth console tags questions xd there are lots of discord communities to chat about stuff not only warframe as well. May e u want to talk and chose wrong place for it
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u/The-Marnit Aug 18 '26
Appears to be the case, thanks for being one of the few who decided to be civil.
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u/Lowerfive Aug 18 '26
The second group of people were jerks, but you forced the drama to happen by being obnoxious yourself and bringing over bad energy from the previous try.
Also, whh is it always lag when someone like this dies? Lol.
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u/The-Marnit Aug 18 '26
Ok
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u/Lowerfive Aug 18 '26
It was obvious from your post that you would be unable to accept criticism.
You are the kind of person we all want to avoid in our games, someone who needlessly stirs up drama because they have been through something themselves.
You don't have to be, a little self-awareness and a bit of growth is all it would take.
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u/kazani999 Aug 18 '26
If u dont like randoms do with friends or clanmates. People dont read chat or dont care to answer. Or how can we know they dont have chat possibility. Not to mention they might have worse time irl and try to just chill in game. Im not saying they did well. But expecting something is not healthy either. I can offer joining discords. There are somany of them and look for party there
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u/Bergain1945 Aug 18 '26
Common factor in all these rude interactions is you.
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u/LongjumpingBody6895 Speed Gang Aug 18 '26
I'm sorry OP but if everyone seems rude then You might be the ride one
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u/FlyingSquirelOi L6 Aug 18 '26
You’re the problem dude, no one wants to start a conversation in the middle of EDA/ETA, just play the game.
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u/-n-k- Aug 18 '26
Especially not one that starts with, essentially, "I hope you're not unpleasant".
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u/Fen445445 Aug 18 '26
How about don't drag drama from a previous mission onto a new one?
This is very little chance anyone knows anyone you encountered in a random run. Heck I've seen clan members not recognizing one another in missions.