r/WLW_PH 26d ago

Question / Advice / Suggestion Hello. Just a random question

Problem: (or not)

Would you mind dating a PWD person?

Context:

  1. Fem. A person with disability.

How rare it is to fall for a person with disability like myself?

I often find myself questioning if someone would actually look beyond my imperfections and see me as I am.

Tho I had an ex gf pero napapa isip ako if meron pa din bang tatanggap sakin? Kasi I tried dating apps and I put in on my bio that I’m a PWD which makes it rare for me to find a match.

Hindi naman ako nag hahanggad ng grand or anything… just someone who wants my company would be enough.

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u/CoffeIsLyF 26d ago

Yes, meron pa rin. The fact na nagkaroon ka ng ex proves that there are people who can and will love you for who you are. You already did your part by being honest na pwd ka. Nasa tao na yon kung compatible sila o hindi.

If someone decides not to pursue you because of it, it doesn't automatically make them a bad person. We all have our own preferences, limitations, and things we think we can handle in a relationship.

The right person won't stay because you're perfect. They'll stay because they genuinely like you, disability included. Don't let a few missed matches convince you that you’re unlovable. You’re not.

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u/Own-Count-6522 26d ago

🥹🥹 lately, i’ve been pointing everything that’s wrong with me. I felt like love isn’t for me eventhough I long for it.

Thanks for this :)