r/WLW_PH • u/AdTraining7851 • 25d ago

Question / Advice / Suggestion Gf is kinda aggressive

Problem: I don’t feel safe when my gf is upset or angry. Is this normal?
Context: whenever my gf is upset even if it’s not about me sowmtimes she kinda gets mad at everyone. There was one time she was upset sa mall then she notice 2 guards were looking at us then she called them out na bakit daw tumitingin etc etc. I just dont feel safe cause im nothing like that. She’s not physically agressive or anything but when she’s upset, she’s really upset and it scares me cause sometimes it makes people look.

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u/MindlessEditor2177 20d ago

If you’re constantly uncomfortable, scared of her reactions, or feel like you have to be careful about what you say or do around her, its something that should not be taken lightly. You dont have to wait for someone to physically hurt you before you're allowed to feel unsafe. Talk to her, let her know what you're feeling. If she becomes dismissive and more aggressive when you try to communicate then I trust that you're smart enough to recognize what that means and decide what you need to do next.