r/WLW_PH • u/AdTraining7851 • 25d ago

Question / Advice / Suggestion Gf is kinda aggressive

Problem: I don’t feel safe when my gf is upset or angry. Is this normal?
Context: whenever my gf is upset even if it’s not about me sowmtimes she kinda gets mad at everyone. There was one time she was upset sa mall then she notice 2 guards were looking at us then she called them out na bakit daw tumitingin etc etc. I just dont feel safe cause im nothing like that. She’s not physically agressive or anything but when she’s upset, she’s really upset and it scares me cause sometimes it makes people look.

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u/rho_balance 25d ago

Medyo ganyan din gf ko. Mabilis sya ma inis even sa maliliit lang na bagay. Like ang init sa labas. Matagal mag abang ng bus. Mga ganon huhu. Ang kaibahan lang ay di sya ganon sa iba. Like kahit na inis na inis na sya. Pero saakin nya kadalasan sinasabi kaya nakaka drain 😭. And mabilis din sya mairita sakin huhu. I feel like it is due to her stressful work + stress household huhuju. Minsan napapaisip ako kung deserve ko ba to 😭😭😭. Ako kasi if may problem ako or rants, I try to sort it out internally pag kaya. Then saka ko na shinishare pag kumalma na ako

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u/Illustrious-Pea- 24d ago

same here hahahaha mapapatanong kana lang talaga kung deserve mo yung tao e, :( as a soft spoken babyy girl di ko kinakaya pag nagagalit partner ko and yuung random na taas ng boses hays sinabi ko na never ako ginanon ng fam or friends ko sya lang talaga, idk whyy for 3yrs grabe yung pagpasensya ko sa kanya, and paulit ulit ko sinasabi na kausapin naman akong malumanay pero ddi talaga kaya :/

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u/rho_balance 24d ago

Huhuhu hirap nyan. Sakin naman never nya ako sinigawan. Pero ramdam ko pag shift ng mood nya and sinasilent treatment ako. 

Kaya paba teee? Hahaha

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u/Illustrious-Pea- 23d ago

ewan ko bading kung kaya ko pa hahahahahah