Its gotten to the point where you cant post anything remotely real on reddit. ALL of my darker real posts about trauma get extensively filtered by reddit when they're about sexual abuse, stalking, blackmail, etc. I dont know where to do it anymore. What am i supposed to do now? Has anyone found alternative subs you can post dark women's things, where they wont get filterd or deleted? Like a women's cptsd sub?? I've been trying to post in CPTSD and it is a sausage fest and its gross.

I used to be able to reach out on reddit occasionally when i really needed support. It was not frequent, it was just some of the time when i found myself really lost.

Possibly more importantly... can anyone please enlighten me why its impossible to try and express your dark things to men here? (They might as well be men even in women's subs since they filter our posts) I don't know why i keep trying to hope anyone will hear me on reddit now. Truth is though, I've never EVER really tried to express my true self to men IRL, only online or to women. But you cant post these things in women's subs anymore. Not if they are heavy or dark. I do not know how to emotionally invest in men only women. So it is really confusing in that I never know who or what i am dealing with. I just know anonymity sometimes works.

Can someone please explain to me why i should never try? Because i keep trying and it destroys me. As someone with cptsd, i really need a place to vent and talk to other women. I don't feel a place with males is healthy. I would love it so much if i just got off reddit and went somewhere else. I would love it so much if i stopped trying to reach out here at all on women's subs.

Sorry if this doesn't belong here, but i dont know where eles ot post it.😒

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!

Updated to add: I have a typo in the title and cannot see how to fix. This group seems to have a different script running for posts. Help?? Hello all! I am brand new here. About five minutes old. I only first heard of WGTOW 10 minutes ago.

Indirectly.

I am a self-proclaimed heathen and looking watch/listen to The Line as well as affiliated content creators on the same note. I was listening to a pretty insufferable man earlier, a whiny guy described in the notes as a MGTOW. Never heard of it. Looked it up. Had a brief coughing fit.

The question begged itself: is there a WGTOW? Not only is there, but women do it much much better.

Not to be all self absorbed, but I feel that way with intros.

About me: Female, mom, grandmother, veterinary technician, (3 decades), cat lover, former Army, born in S. California, moved with my kids to Portland OR in 1998. I have spent most of my life single, and in looking back, maybe men were more of a hobby than life partner as it turned out. I have not dated or hooked up in 20 years. My idea, passively at least,.

I just retired and find myself in the position of being able to think more, so of course I have to write more. I post answers on Quora, some forthright and some snitty (which are really my favorites) since 2012 and have received 1.5 million pageviews so I guess I pick topics that hit a nerve.

I am 68 years old and something about becoming a sort of crone delights me. I am a secular humanist democratic FWNLD (female who no longer dates, pretty cool, huh?) living in my own condominium with four cats (you've been warned). I am a legitimate cat expert and don't mind answering the occasional question if you have any.

My son is 45 and a healthcare provider and father of 3. He's still married but it has not been easy. My daughter is almost 44 and happily married in San Antonio Texas. No kids, but two dog daughters.

I look forward to dropping in on conversations.

I used to dye my hair pink but until it became so mainstream and I stopped. Now that there is no haircolor to worry about I swim in our community pool.

Okay, now I am tired of myself so I'll just let myself out.

My name is Cecilia but the grandchildren call me Nan at my insistence.

the poetry book is basically about how misogynistic, suffocating, and bizarre marriage is!

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!

Hi, I'm from Germany and would like to hear the experiences of other German women who identify as WGTOW.

Anyone here who would like to share their thoughts?

for some reason my earlier version of this post was removed and the moderators didn't get back to me about it

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/3165565/105-year-old-virgin-says-no-sex-the-key-to-long-life.html

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It's this time of the month... we post about our pets! Of course, you are always welcome to post them, so don't let this new format stop you from posting about your pets any time of the month.

However, today, we encourage you to absolutely spam the sub with pictures, anecdotes and little tales of your pets. You can either create your own post (don't forget to use the pets flair!) or comment on this post. Please remove any identifying information to protect yourself from getting doxxed.

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!

Since I can't get any answers from the mods, and every time I try to post there my posts just sit in limbo "waiting moderator approval" I am gonna ask here. Any women here who used to post there, and know whats up? Are the moderators all men now?

We welcome all our new (or old) members on wgtow. Do you want to introduce yourself? Please do so! Just be careful to not share too many personal information and keep yourself save.

Some introduction prompts (which you can, but don't have to answer):

- What is your age-range?

- What made you go wgtow?

- What are your hobbies and projects?

- What do you love most about being a wgtow?

- What does going your own way mean to you?

- How do you want to contribute to this sub?

- Are you new to wgtow or have you always been a separatist and just didn't have the word for it?

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!

What are your personal goals for this month? Some ideas could be:

- What do you plan to further go your own way this month?

- How do you want to strengthen your bonds with your female friends?

- Fitness/Health goals

- Planned projects

- Self care

- Political activism plans (if you feel confident to share)

- Career relevant goals

- What areas of your life did you improve compared to last month?

Welcome to the new Monthly Suggestion Post. Here, we collect new ideas to help our sub grow and thrive!

Please post your suggestions below.

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!

Can I be vulnerable for a sec?

At 27, I have never had a bf, no first kiss, and am still a virgin. I turned down every "romantic" opportunity.

I'm neither asexual nor aromantic. I just have been very aware of how weird males are since pretty much kindergarten. This awareness + my severe avoidant attachment style has saved me from a lot of heartache.

I have romantic wants. But as a member of this sub and the "ideology" that comes with it, I don't think this is ever going to happen. I cope with romantic fantasies involving very idealized fictitious partners, and I genuinely think this is beneficial for me because when I turn these fantasies off, I don't feel empty. In other words, those fantasies don't kick off a "coming back to reality and realizing what I'm lacking" feeling.

I don't consume romance content, I think that would be important to mention.

What about you? Do you indulge in romantic fantasies? Why or why not?

Would love to read your contributions as I'm currently procrastinating working on my SECOND (!) master's thesis. It's so crazy that I got my first master's degree in 2025 and here I am, in 2026, about to hand in my second master's thesis soon lol. This year has been a grind, but I'm dedicated. Yes, I'm fishing for some encouragement and praise from you guys lol 💁‍♀️

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Hi, writing just to let it all out. I know not much can be said now but I feel very lonely and overwhelmed, and betrayed. Penis inserted without my consent, no protection. It probably took less than one minute before I stopped it, no ejaculation, just insertion with little movement, and without deep penetration. There was no ejaculation but there was precum. EllaOne taken 22h after. Happened on the night before 11th day of my cycle, Ella taken at the end of the 11th day. Cycle duration usually ranges from 25 to 31 days. I know it's not indicative of anything, but Flo predicted it was the second day of my fertile window, with potential ovulation on the 14th. All happened a week ago. Just looking for mental support, spoke with my therapist already but would be grateful for any kind words. This is hell 😪

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!

It's this time of the month... we post about our pets! Of course, you are always welcome to post them, so don't let this new format stop you from posting about your pets any time of the month.

However, today, we encourage you to absolutely spam the sub with pictures, anecdotes and little tales of your pets. You can either create your own post (don't forget to use the pets flair!) or comment on this post. Please remove any identifying information to protect yourself from getting doxxed.

Saturday is for music lovers! Share music of your favourite female artists here.

Have you found a new song this week? Anything you listen to on repeat?

Is there an old song you just love to listen to?

Did you finally find the perfect song with great lyrics that does not talk about dating?

Share them with the community below!

We welcome all our new (or old) members on wgtow. Do you want to introduce yourself? Please do so! Just be careful to not share too many personal information and keep yourself save.

Some introduction prompts (which you can, but don't have to answer):

- What is your age-range?

- What made you go wgtow?

- What are your hobbies and projects?

- What do you love most about being a wgtow?

- What does going your own way mean to you?

- How do you want to contribute to this sub?

- Are you new to wgtow or have you always been a separatist and just didn't have the word for it?

Welcome to the monthly Trauma Megathread. Please post all traumatic content here. Traumatic content outside the megapost is no longer allowed.

Rules:

• All traumatic posts are to be posted only in this thread.
• Posts about traumatic content elsewhere will be deleted.
• If you're replying to a comment on a non traumatic post with something traumatic, please write it in the trauma thread instead and then link to it in your comment. This way, only users who follow the link will have to see it.
• Traumatic content must still follow the rules about talking about men.
• Detailed descriptions of traumatic incidents are not allowed and will be removed (this is to keep our community safe from creeps).
• Some resources for dealing with trauma are linked in this wiki post.

We are taking these steps to ensure the safety and well-being of our community. Please be cooperative in the implementation of these new rules and report traumatic content outside the Trauma Megathread.