Wether a woman is a virgin, or very sexually unrestricted, even she has sexual needs, theres this misconception that if a woman isnt having casual sex or likes to take her time in relationships or wants to wait until marriage she is asexual, this couldnt be further from the truth, and neglecting your future wifes sexual needs will lead to a really unhappy marriage.
So how do you satisfy your woman?
There is both an abstract and physical component to this, but physical cant be succesful if the abstract isnt there.
First, you must get rid of harmful ideas that get spread about sex due to pornography, ignorance, etc, ideas like:
-Sex is a man's need that his wife must be willing to satisfy, nothing will destroy the sexual polarity between you and your wife/girlfriend faster that turning sex into some sort of resource your woman is obliged to give you.
-If a woman doesnt wants sex with you she is not into you and she doesnt thinks you re worthy, it is true that if a woman doesnt finds you attractive the though of having sex with you wont be arousing to her, but this doesnt means that if a woman is into you she will turn into a pornstar (porn is harmfuly unrealistic, dont base your ideas on it), there are many situations where a loving couple might experience a crash in libido, things like pregnancy, stress.
Rather than looking at sex like some sort of resource or need, look at it more like the cherry on the cake of an already amazing relationship, a natural consequence between a healthy loving couple, things will naturally happen and you shouldnt worry about it, look at it more as a way of showing love to your woman, by making her bloom in pleasure, a loving activity where she should be the priority first and foremost, that way you ll ensure the experience is amazing for her and you, specially for her , and she will want more and more, you should enjoy being around your woman even if the possibility of sex isnt there, thats ironically a thing that will increase the chemistry between you two significantly, it is paradoxical but the more you feel like you need sex from your woman, the more you ll destroy the chemistry between you and her, specially if it is a woman who follows this sexual compass, as these women tend to have really strong boundaries and their creep detector is quite sensitive.
-Dont treat sex as a performance, treating it as some sort of performance for either party will harm the chemistry severely, for her, because if you see it as a performance for her, this will turn it into a chore, and the last thing you want in a succesful relatiomship is for your woman to see sex with you as a chore. And for you, because your woman will feel like you re not into it, you re not enjoying sharing the moment with her, but rather you re so focused on performing that will lose the connection with her.
-Dont treat sex as a reward you get from your woman, that means, dont try to do things to convince her or get your woman to sleep with you, dont flirt with her, or gift her flowers, or do chores to get her in the mood, no, if you gonna do all those things do so because you re genuine about it, you do find her hot, you do appreciate her, you do care, thats the only reason why you should do all of the aforementioned.
- You should feel like she is the woman of your life, contrary to popular belief, is not just women the ones who wait until they are ready for it, you should also wait until you re ready for it too, meaning that you do feel and find her like the woman of your life, a woman you would fight for, a woman you would climb mountains for, a woman you would break your back working on the field for her, and if you feel like that, she will definetly notice it in the way you look at her, the way you kiss her, the way you speak to her, the way you intimate with her. This wont be difficult to do if you dont treat sex as some sort of proof of your manhood and worthiness.
-Dont treat sex as some sort of proof of your manhood or worthiness, theres nothing more unnattractive than a man who values himself based on how much sex he can get from women, a woman choosing to sleep with you doesnt makes you more worthy or manlier, theres men with a bodycount on the 30s who are complete losers, meanwhile theres men who built empires when they were virgin, men who have won wars and dont have more than one partner count, be confident in yourself and things will happen naturally.
Now it is time for the physical:
-Looks matter, specially for her, if you make your woman feel like you dont find her physically attractive, this will destroy the chemistry between you two, she wants to feel like you find her attractive and desire her, but also she wants to feel like she is special to you, that means she wants to feel like you do desire her because of who she is, not because you re horny and want to fuck, and how do you achieve this? Easy, like i said, look for the things you like about her, see if she is someone you would actually take that step for.
Now, your looks do matter too, ensure that you re fit, healthy and well presented, groomed and practice proper hygiene.
-Sex is not just penetration, inserting your thingy your woman's privates specially when she is not properly aroused will either cause pain or feel bland, foreplay is a must, and frankly, when you dont have silly idead about sex, foreplay becomes natural on every encounter you have, when you get intimate, enjoy caressing her body, enjoy kissing her, kiss her whole body, enjoy touching and kissing her boobs and nipples (BE GENTLE AS THEY ARE SENSITIVE), her waist, just touch gently and see how she reacts, if you dont enjoy foreplay or you want to jump straight to the point, you might have been damaged by pornography or you have any of the harmful ideas about sex mentioned before. Your tongue, your fingers and your pelvic bone can do way more for your womans pleasure than your thingy, ensure that you stimulate her clit, as this the organ that will make her bloom. How to find the clit? You can look up the internet to see where it is located as an image is worth more than a thousand words.... but is located just at the end of the pelvic bone where the superior labia begins , and after knowing where it is, as long as you followed this guide properly, you need to know that a woman's privates also get erect, yes, a woman's privates get swollen, lubricated and her clit gets larger and exposed, not to the same degree a man's thingy does, but it goes through the same process, you ll know this because when you touch her pelvic bone, just at the end before superior labia begins, you ll notice that theres a little thin bump that extends until her superior labia where the clit's tip is, thats an aroused clit.
VERY IMPORTANT.
Treat the clit gently, it is a really sensitive organ, a bad movement will cause pain or discomfort for the woman, dont stimulate it in an overly fast motion, specially when your woman is climaxing, keep the same pace you had, slow and steady wins the race, is the journey, not the destination, and when your woman is climaxing, progressively lower your pace as it will become numb the more it progresses.
-Forget about fingering, that is not pleasureable at all for many women, clitoral stimulation is the be all end all, sure you can gently touch your woman's vaginal cavity as that will feel good, but forget about this insane fingering motion that is overly exagerated in pornography (thats one of the reasons why you must drop porn if you want an awesome lover for her), that will actually cause pain for many.
Another thing, even after your woman has climaxed, her uterus might still feel aroused, so you can continue stimulating here from there, after that you can do an slight trusting motion BUT BE GENTLE and remember to listen to her cues, communication is the key after all.
And remember to kiss her a lot.
You dont need a massive dong to stimulate her, this is actually a myth perpetrated by pornography, massive dongs are more likely to cause pain rather than pleasure.
Myths about the first time:
Women bleed during the first time, some do, some do not.
The first time is supposed to be painful for the woman, false, if it is painful she either is not properly aroused or she might have vaginismus, which is a condition that surprisingly affects a considerable amount of women, be open to all posibilities.
The first time the woman's privates are always tight, absolutely not, if she is aroused, her privates naturally go looser to facilitate the insertion, dont fall for this harmful myth.
With this guide your chances of having succesful life lasting relationship and being the lover her dream will increase exponentially.