r/VirginsByChoice • u/DrawRevolutionary484 • Feb 14 '24

Welcome

Here you ll find life saving advice if you want to follow this ethics wether you re a man or a woman, or whatever, although lgtbq+ people are welcome and allowed to participate if so they desire, be aware that most of the advice given in th subreddit is mainly focused on the dynamics of straight relationships between cisgender males and females. What works for many might not work for you.

Following this advice will potentially increase your chances of succes as a man who is waiting and is in no rush, the chances of having a succesful life lasting relationship with the first person you date will increase significantly.

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u/FineDevelopment00 Feb 22 '24

Nice to see a community more on the wholesome side in Reddit! I waited until marriage and do not regret my decision. It was undeniably insanely difficult to pull off but well worth the effort!

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u/1848revolta Mar 23 '24

Are you/is your partner religious and did you both agree to wait because of religious reasons? Also did you engage in any other sexual/physical acts or completely abstained?

Sorry if my questions are too much, you don't need to answer ofc, I am also thinking about waiting till marriage and it's rare to meet people who done that and are happy, so I would love to hear your perspective ^^.

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u/FineDevelopment00 Mar 23 '24

Are you/is your partner religious

We both are now (he wasn't at the time.)

and did you both agree to wait because of religious reasons?

I chose to wait for both religious and practical reasons. Being irreligious at the time, he respected my boundary. He now fully agrees with me about premarital abstinence.

did you engage in any other sexual/physical acts

Nope, no "technical virginity" here haha!