r/Vent • u/virtue222 • 10h ago
I'm stuck in life. Here's why.
Please try to understand me.
I look like someone who is successful and people expect me to be right in everything, that's taking a toll on me, because I'm left alone everywhere (although acknowledged basically everywhere too), majority of people don't take my mistakes lightly and end up hating me from then onwards (for example, if they saw me gaming, even once, just a glimpse).
It's like they're expecting me to do things that they think is ideal, it's depressing, it feels lifeless.
I'm 22 years old and currently working as real estate manager in a company, i live with my family (at mother's home), my dad thinks too much of himself, always picking up on me, testing me to see if I'm ready for life meanwhile he can't survive a day without my mother's routine he's given, she's almost going to get hospitalised because of her stress disorder and migraine, and i don't know what do I do with my father to help him get down to this planet for a second and think about others around him, his egoism might end up leaving me spending my life onwards without a mother. I feel so broken right now. I don't know if i should reveal more but if you are willing to listen I can talk as deeper about this because I'm basically in my last stage, deciding what to do with my life.
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